my girlfriend's grandma and cousin are both probaly gonna die... and to make it worse her and her best friend (my friends girlfriend) are having a huge fight..shes crying herself to sleep...right now im trying to just b there 4 her the best i can....what else can i do
2007-01-12 15:56:41 · 20 answers · asked by Stubs 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You sound like a nice kid. All you can do is be there to support her; let her cry on your shoulder if she needs to, and hug her a lot so she knows you care. If you're fiscally able to, buy her something nice, like a little bear or some of her favorite candy.
Also, LISTEN! Girls love talking, as you probably know, so be sure to listen to her when she is having a tough day. :)
2007-01-12 16:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and you are doing exactly what I would want my guy to do. Just let me know that you are there when I need you the most. Like when I need someone to talk to are just a shoulder to cry on. Also just knowing that you are not alone in the time of trouble. (Just having another presence around that you love) always help me. Good luck.
2007-01-12 16:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by melanie m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok ask her out next friday reason she likely be busy all week so attempt the weekend. do not ask her out the first probability you get reason that can make you seem to be your obsessed. also locate out even as she has no longer some thing to do on the weekends so that you men may have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a courting. per chance she only should be pals reason she has no time for having a bf?
2016-10-30 23:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by bonanno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a great guy to be with your girlfriend when she's going through such a rough time. I don't know if she gets along with your mom or not, but it might be nice if she could just hang around your house for awhile. Her own mom is probably pretty stressed out, and your mom could be a comforting presence for her.
In the meantime, don't let yourself get worn down. Hang out with your guy friends, do your homework, get rest.
2007-01-12 16:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by rcpeabody1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I know how your girlfriend feels. My grandmother that I loved very much died in November.
My friends hugged me and were there for me. They visited me and my sister and told us encouraging things.
You should do the same. You probably already are! I can tell you are a good boyfriend. Your girlfriend is lucky to have you.
2007-01-13 02:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
right now, youre doing exactly right
you may wanna just give her a phone call at a random time just to say that you were thinking about her and wanted to see how she was doing. that will make her feel amazing. just ask her if there is anything you can do for her to make her feel better.
2007-01-12 16:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by risha_156 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all you can do, sweetie. Best of luck to your girlfriend's cousin and grandma. I hope things turn out well.
2007-01-12 16:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Renegade Rhianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me girls like it when there guy is there 4 them its just kinda hard 2 show it!but dont worry things will get better in time! 4 me i like will not cry in front of guys..unless i've known them 4 a long time so just be there 4 her and dont give up!
2007-01-12 16:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by star 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww thats very nice...
i suggest u let her know your there for her, but don't call her all the time. If she wants to talk she will. Just be at the places she would talk example : im text phone whatever. Just be there for her and let her know u are.
2007-01-12 16:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by TeAcUp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sad.
try to be there for her in what ever way you can, give her a shoulder to cry on and give her lots of hugs. she needs someone to make her feel like everything will be ok.
2007-01-13 01:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋