I like this guy at school, you see. He is funny, smart, kind, and a tiny bit of a nerd. I sometimes dont want to tell people about guys I like and stuff like that but at the same time I do. I dont want my friends to start bugging me that I like a guy. But when I see him I just die! What do I do?
2007-01-12 15:18:23 · 22 answers · asked by Camisado 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
~Don't do anything. If these concerns are for real, you are way too immature to be involved in even a superficial relationship. And you may not meet the nerd's standards. Are you ready for that rejection?
2007-01-12 15:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First, are you friends with him? From what i have learned in dating that it is better to get to know a person first before you try to start something more intimate with them. If you still like him more when your friends, than don't be afraid of taking it further. People might talk about you if you let them but if you believe that what your doing is right and your not doing anything wrong in the first place, than don't worry about it. It doesn't matter what people think about you anyway. Their not going to be by your side if your hurt, so don't worry about them. Just start out small by being friends with him. He'll apprieciate the attention anyway.
2007-01-12 16:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Fightin4UrFuture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, the guys that are nerds are the cutest of all. Ask him out, tell him how you feel! And tell your friends to shut up, if they are tearing you down then they aren't real friends. If you tell him how you feel and he responds rudely, then he is not the guy you were thinking of. Guys can be dogs, so don't let him break your heart, because you're stronger than that!
2007-01-13 01:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by lolosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after him! It might seem hard to do now, and you might be nervous or shy or embarrassed... but when you are older and you look back, you will really wondered why you ever cared about what other people thought so much! If you don't want your friends to tease you or bother you about it, don't tell them. Just talk to the guy. Drop some good hints that you are into him!
2007-01-12 15:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar situation. My boyfriend, who is now my fiancee, and i were set up by my friends. so they knew about it. but my fiancee was kind of a nerd too. lol. and i didn't really like him, or even know him when i agreed to go out with him. but after a few weeks of getting to know him over the phone, i realized that i liked him a lot.. and we just kept with it. my friends teased me about it because like i said before he wasn't a "cool" kid. and other classmates that i knew did the same thing. but i just ignored it. if you like someone just go for it despite what others think. in my case I'm now engaged with my high school boyfriend.
So go for it ask him out. if your friends find out and start buggin you, just let it roll of your back. They'll eventually get bored, and find something/someone else to talk about.
2007-01-13 15:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by lilchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it. what is wrong with a guy who is a tiny bit of a nerd trust me he will appreciate you more, not a jackass who wants you to be his mum. ask him some q's see if hes interested in you. the rest of the world doesn't have to know. keep me posted.
2007-01-12 16:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him then dont worry what others say as they are not the ones with him you will be and if that makes you feel goood then goood for you.if your friends dont like him because he looks nerdy then they are just shallow people do u realy need friends like that . a lot of the nerds from yester years are the wealthy people today .
2007-01-12 15:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by smithycliffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you like him so much you should tell him how you feel, lots of girls feel different about guys... they feel outgoing and want to tell the world or just keep it to themselves,
you should just act like yourself around him and be his friend, if you arent already... you can get to know eachother better
the number one thing about talking to a crush is to not choke, dont be shy in any way.
2007-01-12 15:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell nobosy who knows him, but talk to a cousin you trust or friend outside of school. I agree, it's best not to discuss this stuff with people who know the person. It's easier to just get it out to someone who doesn't know, and don't give into telling!!!! Good luck!!
2007-01-12 15:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are going to have to shut up and deal with it! First off, don't even bother to tell them about your attraction to him until you and he have something really going. At that point, just tell them to bugger off and leave the two of you alone.
They'll get the hint and you'll have the best of both worlds.
2007-01-12 15:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋