of just going about buss...........................................
2007-01-12 14:56:01 · 12 answers · asked by Sexi Azz 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
They probably consider it foreplay. Unless you tell him you aren't all that interested in it, then guide him elsewhere. It stimulates them also.
2007-01-12 15:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by She Devil 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am asuming you are talking about young guys. Much of that is a little "recon". They are just getting a lay of the land, seeing what goes where so they don't look like a idiot trying to jam little jimmy in the wrong spot. Plus it gets the woman excited and lubricated. Also, they think girls like it, as many do. There are lots of reasons but FYI.. Watch a guys hands. The vagina is a moist, mucous membrane lined place and hands are really dirty. You can get an infection real easy from a guys hands. Watch what a guy touches all day and ask yourself if he washed before placing his finger inside you. Protect yourself because nobody else will...
2007-01-12 15:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, I just say it.. were curious... straiight up.... but what a women wants, and what ai guy thinks the want are two worlds away. Comunicate what pleases you and what does not... to the point of cutting him off. kind of like a puppy and the reward system...remember some of us learn from there mistakes, and some dont... but open honest comunitcation will be the key...
2007-01-12 15:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Befree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a guy who does this, be thankful that he knows he can hurt you if you're not properly lubricated. It could be that he thinks you like it, time to prep you or a way to test to see if you're ready. Certainly not all guys do this.
Praise guys to give foreplay, you have a better chance of orgasm. If it does nothing for you, teach him to do it properly. Like the way you likely play with yourself.
2007-01-12 15:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL actually it doesn't always pleasure a woman, and obviously doesn't pleasure the woman asking the question.
If you don't enjoy it, ask him to stop and show him what you do like.
Maybe he is afraid of getting you preg?
2007-01-12 15:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by cherokeee51465 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not ALL guys like putting their fingers in women's orifices, you know. Some of us prefer vaginal sex, or oral sex with a woman. The point is to try and pleasure her, and personally I've never fingered a woman.
2007-01-12 14:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ahhh, tales me back to high school...
they just do this b/c they think we like it...besides when your in high school, most girls don't even know what they like...most of them are copying what they see on movies
2007-01-12 15:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Allyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm.....i think its cuz they want to help the girl get ready for "buss"
2007-01-12 15:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Emmy F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this isn't an all guys situation plenty are happy to do other things I know my boyfriend sure doesn't have this problem
2007-01-12 15:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say that....but they like it because they know that it pleasures the woman. It doesn't do much for them, so they can concentrate on making the woman happy.
2007-01-12 14:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jack K 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋