Okay, so im 12. I really dont look my age though, people say i could get by for 17 tops. I hang around with people up to 19 years old. I susposably hang around with 'druggies' and people that got kicked out of school. i started smoking during summer 2006. My parents are letting my date guys up to 16 years old. So i like this guy. Hes 16, im good friends with his sister shes 15. So I'm always over her house and when i am i'm with her brother and she thinks that were dating, but were not.. but we did fool around after she went to bed, and she thinks im using her. But i think im in for a lot of trouble but i dont wanna turn my life around. Advice please!
2007-01-12 14:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok so, here is the thing. I think that you should tell your friend how you feel about her and about her brother, communication is the best way to solve things!!
2007-01-12 15:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I have to say 12 is a young age but I know when you live older you look older so if you're 12 now and you look 17....that just means that you're always gooing to look older then what you are so it's not really a cool thing...Plus guys are found to be more attracted to girls that look young....and if you keep fooling around at age 12 you're going to end up doing more then what you should and you will regret it and people will know that you're nothing innocent.....so hold onto that for as long as you can....A lot of guys out there don't like girls that have been around the block and you seem to be starting your way around the corner...
Good Luck
2007-01-12 15:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Rebecca, you are in for a lot of trouble. But this is going to involve turning things around at least a little bit. First, I can't believe that your parents allow you to date someone who is 16. At his age, if you two were to have sex it would automatically be rape? At least in Ohio it is, and I know that other states have similar laws. You are too young to date. You are still in elementary school!
Please don't mess up your life by getting a head start on this. You can start by changing who you hang out with. Try kids your own age. If you are good friends with this guy's sister, continue to be friends with her, but start seeing other people too. You don't need a b/f at your age.
Maintain your virtue and your integrity and especially, your virginity.
2007-01-12 15:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl. You are so making a mistake. I know you don't want to hear it but you need to stop and think. You are trying to grow up way to soon. Don't rush. You have so many years to be grown and so few to be young. Stop dating. You are too young. Get involved with school and church activities. Make some younger friends. Not only are older guys using you , you are also using your girlfriend. If you can't learn to be 12 well how do you think you will be a mature 19 year old. Stop! Stop! Stop!
2007-01-12 14:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear rebecca,
i found u in this same trouble that's been the case with my cousin sister.
she is also 13 and she's doing the exact things u have mentioned here.
understand that at 12 u have no idea about the realities of life. this is the age where u make or potentially break ur future. study hard, play harder and be a sweet girl. u shall have all the time for fooling around maybe at my age, say 20. but please, i say please, get in touch with ur parents...... they are the best help.
i am still not shy to talk to mom about any sexual matter neither was i when i was ur age......
u need to have that trust in ur parents, they may scold u and thrash u but don't be afraid to ask them for help.......
i hope u do as i adviced u.
i've told u what i wanted to tell my cousin but can't......
hope atleast u mend ur ways.....
2007-01-12 14:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by sunny98012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, your 12. Enjoy being 12! You can still turn your life around, and better yourself....I know it's easy at your age to be influenced by people you surround yourself with, because you want to be accepted, included and you love the attention your getting. The decisions your making now though,will have a life time of reporcussions if their the wrong decisions.
Have you ever thought of joining a local church with a youth group. You owe it to yourself to have some self respect, and that can begin by loving and respecting yourself enough, to get your life back on track. You owe it to yourself!! Good Luck
2007-01-12 15:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Trina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy you truly screwed up. i replaced into in the same difficulty my freshman 12 months yet I upward trended my GPA and when I took the ACT i have been given a fifteen, then I took it again and that i have been given a 22. Its all interior the right bro'. All you should do is placed some artwork into regardless of you do and also you're going to be successfull. by technique of how, carry that regulation college dream of yours'. you want to commence by technique of taking undemanding community college instructions then do good on those. once you do good in those move to a school and learn liberal arts. upon getting finished all pre-regulation criteria take the LSAT and do your suitable. After that in simple terms wait and be conscious in case your between the fortunate ones to get into regulation college!!
2016-11-23 15:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by dashrath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well well, my advice would be as simple as this; if you don't wanna turn you're life around, don't do it. but if you have more potentialthen what you're letting on, useit. Tell this friend you're not using her for her brother. And kinda explain to herbrother that you wanna be friends with her, and date him. Although i wouldn'tsuggest anything like giving up you're virginity. You know what that is? Thatsletting a male''s penis, go inside of you're vagina and break you're hymen ( the smaller hole inside of the bigger one) it will never be thereagian, adn think you lost it at .. 12?! HOLY **** LITTLE GIRL! Look you live you're life, but tell this girl that you love her to death with or without herbrother, and that you can't help tthat you do like her brother. Just don't give all of the attention to him, and don't play favourites. Tell her brother hat you'd love to hang sometime just the two of you, but NOT at his house.
2007-01-12 15:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by 13/girl/ with problems 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only asking for trouble, you have your whole adult life to do these things. You need to hang out with kids your own age. Don't grow up to fast you will regret it. talk to your parents, or your guidance counselor before you end up in real trouble! Smoking kills stop now before its too late!
2007-01-12 14:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you want to turn your life around? people like you make me sad...12 and already smoking...but i won't lecture you about your life, you decide how you want to live..but i hope that some day you WILL turn your life around...but in the mean time since you asked that question, my adivice for you is to tell your friend that you're friends with her and you're really not using her to get with her brother...
2007-01-12 14:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by ..::xoxo::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋