Iam tottally beated?

Question

ok there is this really ugly ***** named Fey Huckle she wrote something bad about me so I don't know the perfect diss for her she is really ugly,fat and poor and a total ***** and she think she's better at dancing than me and she's friends with this ugly,weird hobo ***** Fey Iam way better at dancing then her and she know it

Answer 1

Thank her, she just made you aware of your insecurities about your dancing skills and your own dependency on external approval.

Otherwise what she said or what any one else says about you, wouldn't have such a dramatic impact on you. Otherwise you would have simply said, "It is her opinion and I know better about myself." You would have become aware of her insecurities which have push her in the first place to put you down.

An empowered person never uses another person to go higher, they have their self esteem to do that for them.

So now ask your self, how do you rate yourself as a person?

I doubt you do put yourself any higher than she has. That is why it has hurt you so much. Otherwise you could have simply said, “So?”

Start approving yourself first, before expecting or hoping someone else to do that for you.

Otherwise you shall always remain prone to getting hurt by external opinions, and charades, know that the power lies in you, claim it and allow it to set yourself free, forever. Learn it now as, you have a long life ahead of you, why not live it with a healthy self-esteem and confidence rather than feeling so vulnerable all the time.

Self approval is the most important life-skills we can ever learn, it would make you immune to any personal attack on your self worth in future, so that respond better to such situations, and timely too, rather than getting so shaken up by some silly girl’s opinions.

Answer 2

I wouldn't waste your precious energy and time on someone who likes to pick on other people. She just wants to get attention for herself. Happy, well-adjusted people don't hassle other people. This Fey person has a lot of personal problems. You should rather feel sorry for her and don't stoop to her level of abusive behavior. If you dance better than her, be happy with your own ability, but life is not a game of comparing yourself to others. Each of us should put our good energies to work on ourselves into being the best we can be according to our own standards. You don't need to worry about others. It's important what you feel about yourself. No one is a greater authority about yourself than you are. Start looking for your inner strength and direction. Fey has got a lot of personal work to do. She is an extremely underdeveloped soul and the biggest indicator of that is someone who singles out another with bad remarks about them. Who elected her as oracle to the masses about you in particular? She may be jealous of you. Often, that is the real reason as to why we put others down in the first place. She probably feels not as good as you are in whatever quality it is she'd really like to have herself. It's just a really obvious clue to someone's personality. A person acting like a bully to another, has self-hatred issues so they take out their inner problems on other people in a sad attempt to make themselves feel better. Ignore people like this. They are pathetic and can cause other people needless pain. Don't get involved in this vicious circle. Petty people do petty things. Don't be one of those! Move on, forget about her. You'll meet many not so ideal people in your lifetime. Learn to tell the difference between people with good intentions and people not worth your time and attention.

Answer 3

nicely, i have frolicked in Istanbul, and at the same time as there is a large number of knowledge of conservative Islam, the city is overwhelmingly secular in practice, and many Turks are by no skill satisfied about tries by technique of conservatives to flow the country faraway from the prestige quo.

Answer 4

My answer would be to confront her bout what she said cause obviously shes to scared to say it to your face and make sure shes around alot of people cause then you can really embarrass her..That's probably the best thing to do cause it wont only be you and her involved. People will be taking bout that for weeks.

Answer 5

let her be a fatass dancer, its her career down the drain, not yours.