2007-01-12 14:34:05 · 12 answers · asked by sami p 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nature. It just happened, I realized it as soon as I could start thinking more complex.. (the age when boys start thinking sexual... it just happens and it's normal)
I was born gay. I just realized it later.
2007-01-12 14:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Flashing Lights 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe the question of nature vs nurture will never be answered. If it is answered as 100% nature the answer will never be accepted by various religious groups. You often read of men who as little boys felt drawn to feminine dress and activity no matter how much the parents tried to raise them as virile men they became soft like women. The nurturing of these males failed to deter the nature of their sexual orientation. The same can be said for the little girl who prefers to do the things the boys do rather than play with dolls or play house in the traditional sense of play.
2007-01-12 15:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by alida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a choice . Un-sure if people are truly born gay. Truly i didnt find out I was gay till i was 15 years old. I grew up in a house with a lot of female influence. And a hard time growing up.
2007-01-12 15:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by emoskaterboi626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a good question. I actual don't have any person-friendly answer for you. you spot human beings like Eileen Wuornos or Jeffrey Dahmer and consider to discern, that there have been signs and indicators of their 'evilness' even from adolescence no baby who cuts and tortures animals isn't proper. type of like the movie The undesirable Seed. you recognize that youngster is evil, you recognize that she has killed earlier and she or he'll kill again. yet, formally, as a forensic psychologist, virtually I say it truly is a mixture of bio-psych-social elements that create those who're evil. I actual have seen a large number of wicked habit in my time, and it may frequently be defined by technique of a few type of condition. yet, unofficially I continuously do ask your self, are they born without a wide wide awake, without morals, without a soul?
2016-11-23 15:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never made any choice to be gay and I never suddenly changed my sexual orientation from one day to the next. As more studies are done in regards to the biology of homosexuality, it confirms what I have always known; I was born this way.
2007-01-12 15:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were born that way. Realization comes later, but you are what you are. Being gay isn't a choice.. its what you are. But there are still those who hang on to the belief that you are gay because you choose to be. thats just not so. Its just the way you are.
2007-01-12 14:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by David L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it could be either one. I'm not gay but some of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi and some of them have always been that way and some have just come out recently. It depends on the atmosphere around you, and I don't think you can stop loving someone just because of what other people think.
2007-01-12 15:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by kara-loves-youu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are born that way. I was 18 when i met my partner to be and had never had any interest in boys or men.
Rose P.
2007-01-12 14:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The desire or preferrence come from the mind
it cannot be nurtured
2007-01-12 14:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by wb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is like food. some ppl like steak (straight sex) and some like pork (gay sex). no one made u like either of these foods. u just ended up trying one and luiking it a lot. being gay isn't a choice and u cannot be raised gay. it's stupid 2 even suggest such an idea.
2007-01-16 11:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by blewboy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋