This is entering my five months of bein' seprated by soon-2-be ex husband and gettin' better each time dealin'. I am wondering since my soon-2-be husband (which he is ninthteen by now) and my lawyer was tellin' me that I can do whatever I want to do, he also including dating as well. So can you give me some advice or any thoughts?
Thanks
2007-01-12 14:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by Country Gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Really I am older than 19... I am seven years older than he is... ***was my frist love***
2007-01-12 14:29:32 · update #1
I know that... That is why I am tryin' to explain to that **can I say a youngun** that... Being married is a long term commitment and I loved him and thought we were *can I say* "Meant to be" for each other...
So now I know it is a miskate and a lesson for me to learn from... Now since he left me it made me realize that it can hurt even worst.... Now I just want to have fun and try to move on until something else better comes along...
2007-01-12 14:35:19 · update #2
Date. Go nuts. Check your baggage at the terminal before embarking on a relationship though. Respect yourself though. This must be a difficult time for you and the last thing you'd want is to come into a meaningless relationship. Get to really know the other person. Need I say, get closer to God too. Go to church.
2007-01-12 14:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by ilm03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST he was too young to think of being marry anyway.He just start to begin living and haven't seen what life have for him.For a man 19 he still a child and has child like ways. A man should be at least 25 before he think about it.
2007-01-12 23:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by jon h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until your divorce is final, you should be careful about what you do for fun. Something simple can look like something else very easily. Go out but go with a friend or someone you trust, try not to do anything that could be considered questionable.
2007-01-12 22:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and date! Assuming you're also 19 and somewhere around that age??? H*ll YEAH! Go date and have fun like a 19 and 20 year olds are supposed to do!!! Go shopping, do girls night out, do makeover with your girlfriends!!
2007-01-12 22:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure..
Start looking around..
Make better choices next time..
Look for a mature financially secure man..
Start dressing provocatively..
Scour the internet...
2007-01-12 22:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres a thought u sould go to the clubs and chill get ya freak on party gurl party
2007-01-12 22:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by honey chavez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married is not a game.
2007-01-12 22:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date and have fun. You're no longer tied to your ex.
2007-01-12 22:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lawyer has no soul. you would still be married and it would still be cheating, cool your jets and wait... what's the problem
2007-01-12 22:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a "single again" party with your girlfriends.
2007-01-12 22:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ti 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋