2007-01-12 14:21:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes but sometimes it take a while.
2007-01-12 14:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by meandmyskate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it gets better, move on and live your life as to the fullest, no matter what happens in the past, the past is the past and this is the present, never regret what happens before, it could of been much worse and always remember that this too will past, you know what it is to be married and you know what it is to be divorce, you are a role model to many young couples, you are a testimony, you can share to those who are in similar situations like you were in, and how you went through and came out of it, yes it does get better, many never made it out of their divorce, you can say that God have given you a second chance in life and now you can make it better, it's your choice, you learn not to make any more same mistakes, if you had any. So make each day a new day that the Lord have make for you and rejoice and be glad in it, God Bless You.
2007-01-12 15:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it gets better but it may take a long time. Sometimes you will feel like you are taking one step forward and two steps backward. Concentrate on being a good mom. Go to church and take your children. Join a singles group at church. Or a ladies group. Encourage your kids to take advantage of the activities there. DO NOT enter into a relationship for some time. With God's help you will not only make it, you will heal and begin a new life that can be wonderful. Good luck.
2007-01-12 14:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Clrjmk,
Heck yeh, it GETS better! Like all things, IT TAKES TIME.
Like you, I went through that also. It was years back. It was so bad, I never thought in my wildest dreams that I'd eventually be Friends with my Ex. well, it took time and years, but we're friends now.
Once you mend from all the hurts and the bad stuff you went through, it will pass. You can be happy again.
You can keep busy as that takes your mind off "things", like taking up a hobby or getting out with "the girls" 1 night or so each week. Take some time for YOU.
Make your New Year's Resolutions now if you haven't and include that you can make this New Year happy and plan a new start. Your life will fall into place.
I'm rootin' for you! God Bless!
2007-01-12 15:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Went through the same thing over ten years ago. I am sorry you have to feel the way I am sure you do. It is probably something along the lines of utter devastation and total defeat. I remember it well.
And yes, it does get better. It will take time, but it will. Chin up.
And just so you know, now, I am so grateful I went through it. Not only am I now married to a loving husband, but it molded and shaped me, and for the first time, for a considerable length of time, I truly like who I am. Without that crappy experience who knows who I would be now.
Good luck to you! Stick with the tried and true people you have in your life, add some new circles in, be true to you and you will pull through just fine!
2007-01-12 14:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, yes, it will get better! It will probably seem like it isn't going to for a little while. Get involved in something that will put your mind on better things. Start going to, or get more involved in your church. Or, you can start working out hard at a family friendly gym. I started working out after my divorce, and got in great shape, and there were activities there for my kids to be involved in too! It will make you feel great in lots of ways! You will be fine, and if you ever need someone to talk to or ask anything of, email me! I have been there, and you will be fine. In fact you will be better than ever before!
2007-01-16 13:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by sfb_wolfpack_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetie, life always gets better just when you think it cannot. Just keep your head held high, believe in yourself, and learn from your divorce on what to look for in the next Mr. right.
But, most important, your kids should always come first. They are missing a part of their life right now, so you have to fill that void.
I wish you all the luck in the worldd hun...I will be here for you if you need to chat. Just IM me K?
2007-01-12 14:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that is best to go out and have a one night stand with some stranger who answers questions on the internet. It will give you what they call "closure".
I for one am willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. It is ok, I would not feel used. That is how committed I am to helping those around me. I don't do it for praise, or to be recognized. I just want to truthfully help.
Pick you up at 7:00?
2007-01-12 15:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure. Be careful in your speech to your kid(s), don't badmouth the ex in front of them. Do your best to give him any access he is legally permitted. That's all. It's hard to separate the rest of your life from this, but do your best. Join a group. Take up a hobby, volunteer, do something new that will give you a new group of friends. I know, time may not allow...do your best for you, and for your kids. Keep a sense of humor (if Sarcastic) about it all. Good luck...
2007-01-12 14:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by longhair140 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am also a single mom and going through a divorce and it nearly killed me the first week or so but then i started feeling better. its been 3 months since we separated and i am the happiest woman alive. and it gets better everyday
2007-01-12 14:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in time you will feel better. Dont rush into a new relationship, give yourself time to heal. Hang out with girlfriends, baby yourself but dont dwell on what went wrong. Good luck!
2007-01-12 14:31:53 · answer #11 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋