Condoms were found in husband's international trip travel bag on 2 separate occassions. He said it was for them or were in there from before. What should she do? Is this cheating? Marriage with kids involved.
2007-01-12 14:20:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kids involved or not, sorry he's cheating, tell your FRIEND to dump him, sorry but that is my opinion. No-one needs this kind of treatment from anyone, they will sooner or later find someone who treats them and the kids with better respect, i always say the reason people cheat #1- No self respect, #2 No morals that is just to name a couple,, and i also think the person that is being cheated on will find someone who will be good to their kids like their own, (like i did) good luck and god bless.
2007-01-12 14:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is aweful...only she really knows for sure if those condoms were in there for her...I doubt it though...maybe he's cheating or maybe he wants to be prepared if he does cheat...Either one is not good...I would recommend a marrige counselor....there is always something wrong when the other partner is looking else where...sad that there are children involved but all the more reason to find a solution to the problem....
2007-01-12 22:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would a married man need to keep condoms in a travel bag ? Well hmmm... lets see... BECUASE HE IS CHEATING ON HER !!! But it's up to her on how she reacts. I say confront the dirty S.O.B and if he uses the line of "they were there from before" she should take them out and trash them, then wait to see if they reappear but once she has found them in there unless he's stupid he wont hide them in the same place next time.
2007-01-12 22:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he gets pretty busy on business trips.Time for some honest discussions and a trip or two to the Doc and Lab for tests. Condoms don't solve all problems - not to mention the trust issues.
2007-01-12 22:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After confronting him, she needs to decide if his story matches up with the evidence. Women have a gut feeling about when things arent right....she needs to set him straight either way! That if he is messing around...then she deserves to know the truth, especially since there are children involved. She also needs to be on his heels until she feels at ease on the issue. If he loves her and is innocent, he should have nothing to hide!
2007-01-12 22:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Trina A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse he is cheating on her .What does it take before a wife believes that her husband has been cheating on her.Women need to understand that he is a man first then a husband.
2007-01-12 23:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey at least hes bein safe... :) but really on a serious note condoms are only used for one thing.. he is cheating definately.
2007-01-12 22:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Christines256 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if there is kids involved. He is cheating and if she don't have the strenght to leave him she should thank her husband for having the respect to use condoms while cheating on her. If this is what his excuse was... then he's going to continue to do it. Why would you have to ask such a question. If she's asking the question, then she knows the answer.
2007-01-12 22:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes he is cheating. End of story. Now make a decision.
2007-01-13 16:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Missy Lyons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to us.i found condoms and shapoo sachets in the car.i tore open the condom, showed it to him and told him "this is a trash used by a trash for someone who is a trash"..i didn't put up a fight because he will deny to death about cheating.he will always have an alibi.i let him but i have learned not to love him now..THE LESSER YOU KNOW THE HAPPIER YOU ARE.make it your guide in life..it worked for me.
2007-01-13 06:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋