I think he likes me and am scared to hang around him. I went over his house one day and I saw him in this mothers clothes trying to twist his hips. I also fainted. He stares at me 24/7 and I hate that. I think I should stop hanging aroud him. I love girls and he needs to understand that
Do you agree
2007-01-12 14:14:33 · 33 answers · asked by Tyler K 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He must be really uncomfortable to hang around. Just start talking about girls and how you like them. Talk constantly about girls so he knows that you are definitely not interested in him. Try and get a girlfriend.
2007-01-12 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem with him being gay... what I see as the problem is your insecurities about it.
Dude, he's still your friend either way. If you were to tell him you like eating cucumbers with vanilla ice cream, and he stopped being your friend, wouldn't think that a bit insensitive?
If you want to stop being his friend simply because he may be gay, then maybe he deserves a better friend.
Now as far as him eyeing you and whatnot... just let him know, "Hey, I don't mind if you are or are not gay, but just to lay the boundaries... I'm off-limits, ok? I still want to be friends, and I'll even help hook you up with anyone I think may be interested.. but I just don't go there. So, you want to grab that hamburger or what?"
You never know.. he may be staring at you just because he knows you're a little scared. Don't be scared. Be his friend.
2007-01-12 14:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess I just don't understand the whole homophobe thing. I have had plenty of gay friends throughout my life, and I never looked at them any different than my other friends. With the girls, I figure there's just as much a chance of them liking me as my straight guy friends, and I wouldn't stop hanging out with them just because there's a slight chance they may start to like me. If he is really your friend, and he is gay, who cares? Even if he does start to like you, if he knows you're not interested, he should back off anyway.
2007-01-12 14:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by ifernnick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being gay. If he knows you like girls then he isn't going to hit on you. Be a true friend and don't think this way. Maybe he is just strange and likes to stare at people. Do you know for sure he is gay? Anyhow it dosen't matter.
2007-01-12 14:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't really tell based on the information you've provided, but you should talk to him about this. If he is gay and he likes you, tell him firmly that you don't like him the same way and ask if you can still be friends (if you want to that is). Maybe this guy likes women's clothing or something and doesn't want to admit it. Talk with him about it, that's the only way you can truly find out.
2007-01-12 14:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ditch your friend just because of his new found sexuality. Show him support, and if he ever does make a move on you, let him know that you respect his lifestyle, but you don't live your life like that. Then again, I don't think he needs a homophobic friend like you hanging around judging him.
2007-01-12 15:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I would feel the same way if a girl liked me. Somehow you have to find out if he is or not. Asking him directly would be quite awkward if he really isn't and you'd probably feel quite stupid.
Maybe ask his mother if shes noticed anything - only if shes trustworthy.
2007-01-12 14:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Some friend you are. He might think that you may be the only one that understands him. I wonder how he would feel if he saw the words you just typed. I definately wouldn't want to be your friend; You are intolerent of other people's differences.
2007-01-12 15:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm. how would you feel if your friend just stopped hanging out with you just because you like girls? you need to be there for some moral support. i don't know what your opinion is about gays, but they are still people, and what changes him about him being your friend? yes he stares at you, but just let him know how you feel. don't just ditch him that would be a terrible friend!
2007-01-12 14:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest u have a serious talk with your seemingly gay friend. Talk straight to him but politely as possible. I believe u have been good together as friends and that i dont wish you to break. BUT, If he is up to something than friendship, tell him straight that it can never be possible. If he continues with his gay ways, u have no other choice but to distant yourself. Remember, we are always free to choose our friends. Good luck!!
2007-01-12 14:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋