she is always like marissa lets have sex im so afraid help plz
2007-01-12 14:13:19 · 18 answers · asked by marissa l 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
better telling up strait forward, rather than behind her back.
2007-01-12 14:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by andrea H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either a) tell her you're not interested the same you would any other human being you didn't want to have sex with b) tell her if she doesn't stop bothering you that you won't be around her too much because you're uncomfortable or c) tell her you're just to narrow minded to have a friend who's not just like like and you're homophobic and slanderous to boot, or that you just don't understand the connotations of calling a person a "lesbo".
2007-01-12 22:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,first off if we decided our friends by their sexuality,we would be missing out on alot of great friendships.You need to tell her it makes you uncomfortable.Tell her,you respect that she is in fact a lesbian but you are straight and would rather she not make those comments toward you.If she continues to do so,then tell her you dont think you two should be friends because she doesnt respect your sexuality.Dont up and not become friends with her,maybe she doesnt realise it bothers you so much.First talk about it,if it continues then stop being friends,until then just talk to her and wait to see if the behavior continues.Good luck hun and have a good night.
2007-01-12 22:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you're not that kind of girl. She's probably joking anyway.
As for not wanting to be her friend just because she is a "lesbo" - shame on you. She is the same person you knew before you knew her as lesbo. You're making a mountain out of a molehill.
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2007-01-12 23:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question for the asker. What if it was a guy doing this to you and you were completely not interested in him? Handle it the same way. Im thinking and perhaps Im wrong that you don't want to insult her sexual preference you just don't know how to tell her without seeming insulting to her. Handle it the same way you would if a guy you were uninterested in kept asking you for sex. You won't be insulting her, you would just be getting your message across.
2007-01-12 22:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off why dont u wanna be her friend? Is it because she 's gay? Well I would let her know that I dont swing that way and u need to respect me and if not then we cant be friends at all because that's disrespectful to keep coming at me like that. So really it's up to her how she wants to do this but put it on the table!
2007-01-12 22:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Tell her you aren't interested in same sex relationships. Tell her you don't roll that way. Just let her know, and make sure she knows you aren't joking. I had a friend who was the same way. I just started to ignore her when she didn't get the picture. Don't be mean about it, unless she refuses to accept what are you trying to say.
2007-01-12 22:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok thats not good. and also it depends on your age. if you are young then it ususally is that young adults are very confused about homosexuality and also homophobia is at its peak at this age. perhaps your friend needs counseling. you may want to try helping her before distancing yourself from her. talk to her seriously without being weirded out by it. if she behaves in an immature fashion about it (and yes, asking to have sex with you repeatedly, is an immature thing) do try to find help and keep a distance.
2007-01-12 22:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be her friend, just tell her to stop asking you for sex. tell her that you don't swing that way, and if she asks again, she can kiss the friendship goodbye. let her know she's makin you uncomfortable, and you actually had to think about breakin off your friendship with her.
continue being her friend though, if you guys were close before, than sexual orientation shouldn't come b/wn you guys.
2007-01-12 22:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she wants to keep you as a friend then she would change her ways, i did it to this one girl 4 years ago and she changed her ways, she went right but dated too many boys and kept gettin pregnant and havin miscarriages so just tell her than then control her when she decides to get a BF
2007-01-15 02:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Patrice C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she is hitting on you ... then you need to tell her to back off. but if you dont like her JUST because she is a lesbo.... then she dont need you to be her friend.
2007-01-12 22:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by pajamapants59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋