i have two friends... i made them meet and now things r a disaster...?

Question

k heres the story..... well i have this friend brooke who has been friends with me my whole life, and i have this other friend maggie that i met about 2 years ago cause of family. now she goes to my school and brooke goes to a near by school. well their both my best friends and i decided to introduce them to each other. (this was about half a year ago) and now they call each other their best friends! i mean they have only seen each other a couple times!! and only like 2 i havnent been there. i know i shouldnt be making a big deal out of this and its none of my busniess but im hurt. i feel like they like each other better than they do me. on their myspace they have each other as their first. even though brooke says loren and sara r my best friends and vis versa i juss kinda feel that they like they like each other better. i would like some advice to help

no rude answers please.
thanks all for ur help
muchlove

thanks for the help
i tryed being a threesome
....that didnt work

Answer 1

I think I would just talk to them both. I would say I feel like since I introduced you guys to each other you have kinda put me to the side. And there is nothing wrong with having more than one best friend. You know how it is when you first meet a friend that you really get along with you wanna hang out with em all the time and do all that stuff so maybe it's just because it's still kinda new to them. Good luck.

Hope

Answer 2

You sound insecure. And it seems for no reason. You wanted them to like each other, I would think. So now that they do, you are unhappy? You need to get some confidence. I have no doubt you are also their best friend. But if you keep coming off insecure...and trust me, it will show...they maybe won't want to hang around you anymore. Instead of thinking of this as a disaster, think of it as a positive thing. Invite them both along for a trip to the mall or the movie. That way, the three of you can still be buds without anyone feeling slighted. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

It is easy to fall into this trap, but honestly - you are the only one thinking this. Your friends are happy that they get along because they think it is important to you and luckily they are having an easy time. Girlfriend triangles work great - when one gets a boyfriend, the others still have each other until she is ready to get back to girls time and then another gets a boyfriend, etc. - it's a thing of beauty. Don't mess it up with unnecessary insecurities. Love your girls, expect them to love you and you 3 could be firm fast friends for many years to come. If you say something to your friends you run the risk they might start feeling selfconscious or be angry with you (because they only started hanging out because you asked them to, now you don't like how they are doing it?) and then uncomfortable.

Peace!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I am afraid there is nothin you can do bout it. I went through the same thing that you are going through and i even tried to break them up. Then i realized that i would rather be both of there friends (even they like each other more) then just be hated by them. I am sorry to say that just be lucky for what you have. Two of my Best Friends in the whole world HATE each other. Be happy that your friends don't get in each others face!

Good Luck

Answer 6

I've been on the same situation before and I felt like btrayed or something, but then I realized I was just being jealous. I think thay maybe you can enjoy spending time with eachother because it is not a competition on who's the best friend of who. I know it hurts, but really, friends are supposed to be cool, not hurting.

I wish you the best!

Answer 7

I also have two friends I once introduced. Sometimes I too feel that they like each other more than me but eventually I understood that they still are just begining to be friends and still don't know that much about each other. They're still learning and soon will get used to each other and treat you the same.

Answer 8

if you're really hurt, then both friends will be there for you. it's better that they now know each other so they can work stuff out together. if they didn't know each other, and you got hurt, two friends would be trying to help you in two different ways. now that they are friends as well two friends will be helping you in the same way without any conflicts. and if you truly fell hurt by their friendship, then tell them.

Answer 9

The three of you can be friends. If you liked one better than the other, the other would feel bad, too. Be happy that they like each other. I think it would worse if they didn't.

Answer 10

i had that problem a few times ill tell u how to solve it see i had this friend named angie and i had this other friend named raven and since us three became friends angie became jealouse of raven and i we solved it by having a talk together and try to play more often and now its all better

u should really trie it!