What does a Divorce feel like?

Question

I was wondering...There is this guy i know and he`s getting divorced to his wife.
They never really liked each other, but once they found out she was pregnant they got married.
No they are getting a divorce. Im wondering....to a guy does it feel like No one loves you...or something like that?
Does it make you want to do stupid stuff like go out to strip clubs?

-_-;; I really dont know anything about Divorce`s, but i think maybe if i know what it feels like then i can help him...maybe ^-^.

So please share your knowledge with me. Thanks~

American Beauty-Actually He`s my dad`s friend, ^_^ But no i would never think of this as using this to help myself?
He`s like an older brother to me...so i kinda wanted to do something for him......But since i dont know anything about Divorce`s im kinda helpless....Dont cha think?

and you know i dont really want to leave him alone because dosent he need somone to help him right now? I mean he has his friends....but they dont seem like they care about him....my worst fear is not being able to do something for him...I mean after all he is my Onee-chan...

Answer 1

if feels like eighteen years of child support, not knowing your kid, and and empty wallet

Answer 2

I don't know what it feels like to a guy but it depend on the situation that brought about the divorce. I was married to the devil himself the second time ( I really know how to pick them). I was so happy until I didn't hear all of what the judge was saying to me. I was smiling and asking the clerk of court where can I go to get my name changed? Now my first divorce was a killer. I felt like i lost something that I needed inside of me. I couldn't function for about 2 weeks and I had my kids to tend to. I cried at times when I really should have been having a good time. I just wanted the earth to open up and swallow me. On top of that my family talked about my situation as if I wasn't even in the room. I got over it as too, he will too. Now he's on his 3rd wife and 4th baby. I on the other hand have opt. to give marriage a rest. I can't seem to pick the right man to date, let alone marry.

Answer 3

nah.. works out ok..im on my second wife ..she and i are still friends with her ex and as far as mine ,was the best thing that happened besides our children..we can talk but havent gotten to the friendship part but she is married again i am and so its fine..when you get a divorce they say its like a death ,but well yeah you could feel that nobody loves you personally i felt free.. and going to strip clubs well Im sure about that one ,but there are alot of nice women in those clubs that care more about friendship than someone liking the way the look naked.. So well maybe he will meet a stripper..nothing wrong with that but he could possibly have a million emotions not that uncommon..Tell your friend get up and get out and have fun..let the other go and live life never to regret and if its too strip clubs so be it..You sound like thats a bad thing.I assure those clubs are not like most think..most of the women there its a job just like going to any other place of business.

Answer 4

Divorce is a ugly thing especially if there's kids involved. It's hard on both parents whether the male figure wants to have an active role or not is really up to him. It's hurtful and it takes alot of time to get over it. Not so much the loss of the love it's the reality of failure. The best thing to do is to be there to listen and hopefully if he has kids the wife will be civil as well as him. No sense if bickering over what was or wasn't.

Answer 5

It is hell!
You get used to being with someone, and then they are gone.
The hurt eats away inside you, and all your thoughts are taken up by reasons and blame.
As far as stupid stuff, YES, I went on a bender for months, I had 4 women on the go at once, and I did not have any feelings for them, I was using them, for some disturbed revenge.
But it passes, and I am now happily married again.
Time heals, but NO ONE believes it at the time!

Answer 6

What is it you want to do, help him get closer to you? And how do you know they never really liked each other? Did his wife tell you this, or did he? Your motives are selfish and that's the last thing he needs right now. Let the man go through the healing process, before you start plotting.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

a divorced feels like your world has ended....but it gets better.

Answer 9

death

Answer 10

liberation.
freedom.
fear.
depression.
happiness.
guilt.
dread.
hopeful.