Theres a few kids in my class who always pick on me bcause of my size. They push me around and do whatever they can to look cool like push me, kick me, call me stuff, and make fun of me. It always makes me so mad. I have the urge to punch them but I can't because im way way to small to think of fighting them. And at my schools its pretty much if you tell anyone its going to get worse. In a few situations my friend sticks up for me but after hes done that it gets worse because they say I can't stick up formyself. What should I do?
2007-01-12 13:55:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Did you try telling your parents? So that they'd talk to their parents? Well yeah...
Who gets bullied: reasonable people and aloners. Reasonable people think about the cosequences. To change that:
Do fight back. They don't expect it, and in most cases bullies are cowards. Do it in public. Next time you are bullied around, punch the bullie right in the nose. Do it with full determination because this is the only chance you will get. Chances are, you guys will be pulled apart before it gets real bad. Now, the danger is what's gonna happen when they have a chance to catch you without public. This is their common strategy. You'll have to be careful. Next time, when you have a chance and an excuse to catch him right in the nose again - do it again! People don't like their noses punched. He'll decide that you are mad.
Stop being an aloner if you are. Find a bunch of frinds to always hang out with. Use whatever it takes to get a group of friends around you.
2007-01-12 14:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't know how old you are, but i'm in 10th grade. i've never really had this problem b/c i'm 6 foot 3 inches tall and weight 250 pounds, but i can still help you. bullies bully people because they are insecure about themselves. maybe they're not the smartest people in school, or they have problems at home. what you don't want to do is stoop down to their level. i'd mostly just use words. if they call you small, then you can thank them for the compliment and walk away. the trick is to be sarcastic. all that bullies want is a reaction - if you give it to them (by screaming, hitting, etc.) then you're giving them what they want. if you don't let them bother you and just walk away, they'll eventually not pick on you anymore, and you won't have any more problems. hope this helps!
2007-01-12 22:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by computer_dude_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what can you do to stop being bullied, but what I can tell you is that there is nothing bad aboutnot being tall. I am 5" and I'm 19.. yes, I'm a girl but I really used tu hurt me so much!!! But what I can say is that you have to remember that size is measured from your head to the sky, so you are greater!!! Besides, good things come in small sizes, like channel perfumes!! So maybe if you don't give that much importance to your size, those guys will stop bothering you!
2007-01-12 22:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,i`m sry that happened what i would do is step up to the plate now i`m not saying violenece solves problems but if these kids are doing all this stuff and getting up in your face buddy i`d wack them b-cuz u have god by yur side but fighting is not always great and could lead to school o.o.s.s. i would tell a teacher or a principal and if they threaten you then i would do it any-way tell the principle evry thing that goes on and those boys will have o.o.s.s. remmeber your never to small.I`m small and i push teenage boys around-lol-.Don`t b scared to stick up 4 your-self evry once in a while.
2007-01-12 22:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know kids can be cruel, and I feel bad for you. What I would do one day is set it up so a teacher or some one sees what is going on and if that dont work I would just get so fed up that one day I wiould just flip out on them, and I mean freak so they know you mean business. At least that way your not fighting , your just getting it off your chest...Goodluck...shunnydunn
2007-01-12 22:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by shunnydunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.dont say anything mean back
2.tell them to stop
3.if that dosent work tell the teacher
4.if it still dosent work laugh along with them! it works!
5.try to act tough say you dont want to mess with me because i will mess you up! say it loud and clear dont mumble it.
6.if it doesnt work then tell your close friends they healp you thats what true friends are for.
7.ask your friends for advise
8. if that doesnt work ignore them!
good luck hope this works! :) good luck charm!
need more advise email me!
2007-01-12 22:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by dez wez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to fight them,if u fight the leader of the group who does that to u,and u win,they will eventually stop bothering u
2007-01-12 22:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by e_s_p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋