a lot of pple telling me it's wrong to do this n that... but cant i just continue to do wat i want? i like a married guy with kids (although he lied to me that he's single when we 1st met) but he also like me n we do not wish to let go of each other currently... we r not sure of the future as no 1 can predict the future... most will think it's adultery but then who can predict wat will happen next? if every thing like tat consider are wrong., then y we ended up meeting each other n falling in love? i just want 2b with the person i like.. i din ask him to leave his wife n also he din want to hurt his wife... love is selfish, isn't it? love is also blind, isn't it? but how come others can continue but cant i just do wat i want?i know it's an bad example but then i cant just let go like tat so fast now i just got to know the truth...
2007-01-12 13:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everybody have their opinion and they always think they are in the right without analysing the situation. You are not wrojng to love someone but why did he want to lie to you that he is single in the first place.
I do agree that love is selfish. Even though you din expect him to leave his wife but do you think his wife won't find out. There are certain things that cannot be hide forever. Did you ever consider the fact that if his wife find out this relationship what is going to happen? Is he willing to leave his wife and be together with you or otherwise. Nobody can tell you until such thing happened. The final decision lies with you and nobody else. Think over it before you made a decision
2007-01-12 23:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this you and him are falling in lust it is not love. You and him both want each other and you can not have one another cause he is married. He has a family that needs him wherther you and him see it or not. They are together for a reason and breaking them up cause of you and him lusting for one another is not right at all either. If he lied to you once he willl do it again, what make you think that he want still be talking to his wife whether he leave her or not she will still be a part of his life with their kids they will still talk and they will still love each other no matter what. I am gonna leave you with one thought. Put yourself in his wife shoes you and him get married and he sees someone else and then poof he ups and leave you with the kids and all and go to be with another woman then how are you gonna feel??? You have to think and take a lot of things in to consideration when dealing with a man who is all ready married. He married her for a reason and they have a family together. Think before you react is all I am saying?? How woudl you feel if someone did this to you??
2007-01-12 22:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't want to hurt his wife he would'nt have cheated on her in the first place he needs to come clean with his wife and tell her that he has found some one that can make him more happier than she can. bottom line.I'm sure by him telling her he can't hurt her no more than he already has.
2007-01-12 22:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hv already said lots of ppl hv told u its wrong..so they cant be wrong...right?
2007-01-14 03:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋