2007-01-12 13:53:36 · 5 answers · asked by bratzrus19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one likes being rejected, it hurts b/c we want something so badly and when it doesn't work out we are let down but the funny things is that we set ourselves up to feel this way. We wanted it to work and we were just so sure that this was the one! Well Honey dust yourself off and get on to the next one and be happy when that one is over as well it just means you are getting closer to the one that is right for you. Timing is everything! Just as badly as you are looking for that certain someone, that certain someone is looking for you and sooner or later you will cross eachothers paths -The hurt is there to teach us things we have to learn before the right one comes into our lives! From now on think of these relationships as trial and error if it works it works if it doesn't something bigger and better is out there waiting for the right time to reveal itself. - Don't feel bad no need - Be happy b/c now you know something you did not, use it to your advantage!
2007-01-12 14:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is something we all fear. Especially when we finally feel such strong feelings for a person. Or when we are so new at the dating thing, and it feels as though we need all the confidence we can get. Just hang in there, cause it gets better. One day you will look back, and thank God this person had no feelings for you. Cause you will have found your soul mate. I've been there, and now I look back and thank God. I met my husband at age 16, I'm now 23. You just know, and we both new something was different from the get go. Now our love only gets stronger as we grow older together. Just keep in mind...." You don't want any man who doesn't know 100% that he wants you." Good luck hun....
2007-01-12 22:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just happened to me today... i think it's the realization that you and your "person" just don't fit. the thought of having to give up your perfect image of that person and bestow it on somebody else is a hard thing to do. also, it hurts that if you give that person affection, they can not return the favor.
2007-01-12 21:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by fcbarcafan19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You set your mind up that it hurts not to be with him, although you don't know-- maybe it hurts more to be with him!
2007-01-12 22:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have talked yourself into thinking you can't live with out em...and that is BS
2007-01-12 21:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋