Is it just me or is it like that? Am i the only one that thinks this ?
2007-01-12 13:51:47 · 14 answers · asked by music_junkie_nz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You form opinions on your own personal experiences...so it is just you.
2007-01-12 13:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychology would say, and I would have to agree, that women are able to fall in love easier then a man. They can also fall out of love much easier too. If you were to ask any man about who his first love was, he would be able to tell you and probably give you there phone number too. This is not to say men are more caring or sentimental. Women have been generally found to end a relationship easier because they have thought about ending for quite some time. This time allows them to justify it in there head and it becomes acceptable. It seems easier because when they get around to doing it, there is no chance they will back out of it.
Men on the other hand are far more impulsive. This usually leads to a very abrupt ending with little reasoning and much more emotional scaring. Usually comes when the man has had bad experiences in the past and harbors ill contempt for the woman he lost and takes it out on the one he has. Women will usually rebound better then a man from a bad breakup and men will continue to hold there emotions in and remember the one that hurt them.
2007-01-12 22:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by KikarioJin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the age on the men and women. I think younger men seem to be able to break up and hook up easier and faster than younger women. I think a lot of women think they are "in love" and can not live without that man. Them same women grow up, and kind of learn that they can live without a man, which makes it easier for them to break up and hook up easier when they are a little older.
When I say younger I mean older teens.. ect...
2007-01-12 23:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its part of the genetic make up of females. It helps with their survival. The ability to get over a relationship and move on to the next ensures that she can be protected. It goes back to the caveman days. A female has a better chance parabonding, were a male isn't dependent on that. That is why it takes longer for a male to get over a relationship, because there is not benifit to us to go from one relationship to the next.
2007-01-13 09:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman and circumstances. It also depends on how far the fall is.
Some of these women carry parachutes when they get into a relationship. If they have to jump, it's an easier landing.
2007-01-12 22:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easier for women to get another guy, most men want s_x. When she's ready there is usually one already waiting....
Men want s_x and most women want to stay away from users. Men push women away when they come on too strong, or get too controlling, some men do not know how to express themself to get what it is they really want and loss the girl before he figures it out...
Thats why!
2007-01-12 23:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not always the way it is... It all depends on the person and who is doing the breaking up and the hurting!
2007-01-12 23:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because to me, i think that women have it easier finding a man than men do.
2007-01-13 11:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a break up is easier on anyone involved.
2007-01-12 22:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I think it is so much easier for men to.
2007-01-12 22:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋