My husband have to be transferred to another location. Eventhough we know we could call and text each other every day, but the pain can't go away (We feel empty inside, anxious and restless).
2007-01-12 13:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by amy kz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The pain you feel from missing each other will not completely go away but the fact that you can communicate should make it some better. Just imagine it there were no communication at all. The though of that should bring you a little comfort. Try writing him letters when you feel lonely. It should help you by giving you something else to do besides just sitting around thinking. You can also send him things in a care package. Try finding things to do for him. I know this is hard for you but you will make it through these hard times. Just be strong for him. So that he doesn't worry about you because it has to be hard enough just being away. If you cry you know he cries harder but if you sound happy it will brighten his stay and the time apart will soon come to an end. But it's really wonderful to love someone so much that you feel empty without them. That tell you that you are not just in love but in true love. A love that no matter how far apart you are you are closer then close.
2007-01-12 14:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance and time makes love grow stronger if you are truly in love. Just keep your self busy and don't fall into any "traps". Good luck.
2007-01-12 21:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Robin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know this could happen when you married? If so, then suck it up and be an adult about it. Otherwise, you should have never gotten married.
2007-01-12 21:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day at a time. send letters too. special deliveries. is there any way you can surprise him where he is?
2007-01-12 21:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pet.
2007-01-12 21:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋