I have a flat chest. i have this little tiny bumps for boobs. i was made fun of last year because of it. i doubt i would fit into the smallest bra even though the bra size calculaters on the computer tell me i am a 30AA. i really want a bra. everyone in my school has one even people who don't need them who are completely flat chested.how do i tell my mom that i want a bra even though i don't quite need one???(do you have any advice at all on this subject, please tell i am desperate!!!)
2007-01-12 13:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by Shaken, Not Stirred. 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
heyy!
i'm 12 years old and i AM NOT TRYING TO RUB IT IN but i am almost a size b.
i am trying to help you, so don't stop reading thinking i'm a stuckup freak! loll
i guess i just started puberty fast..
EVERYBODY is different!
and believe it or not, the polls show that girls with smaller chests in their early days develop much bigger boobs when they get older..
supposedly in their 20's.
i have a relative that was COMPLETELY FLAT CHESTED when she was in her teen years!
she only went up to a size A!
until she turned about 19.
thats when she got up to a size c!
its amazing isn't it?
lol but the thing is, she was never ashamed of it!
please do not be ashamed of your body because then you will seem very unsure! nobody wants that right?
she was always selfconfident, and i guess it was her fate to grow bigger sizes in bras.
and i am sure it will be the same for you.
IGNORE THOSE PEOPLE IN YOUR GRADE
i am sure you're much prettier than them.
=)
just be yourself, i promise you that will help a lot! =]
you'll see.
we'll see WHOS gonna be laughing when you grow up and have bigger boobs than those girls who laughed at you now!
=)
hope that helped!<3
2007-01-12 13:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by lala 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You're only 13, they will grow a least a little, maybe a lot in the next couple of years. You can find padded bras that will make them look bigger and more shapely. Most girls benefit from a bra no matter what their size. It just gives a better appearance. Explain to your mom that you would feel more comfortable wearing one, and let her know they make bras in 30AA and are not that hard to find.
2007-01-12 13:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and still have a small chest (I'm just as small as you). Join the party! At least I have a friend who is just like me. We always make fun of girls that have bigger chests than us. lol! It's ok to have small tatas. You still haven't completed puberty yet. If all doesn't work out they have fake boobs that look like chicken cutlets that you can put in your bra. That's what I use. As for the bra thing, tell your mom it's time to go to the bra department. They have training bras for girls that are being introduced to the wonderful (and sometimes depressing) world of undergarments!
Don't be discouraged! I'm writing to you because I know how it feels and I hope that you see some of the humor in what I wrote. Good luck! :)
2007-01-12 13:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bra size isn't everything. Even though it may seem like it, your breasts will grow. And don't worry, you will develop breasts soon, some people just blossom later than others.
To tell your mom that you want a bra, talk to her when your alone, for example when your in the car. Your mom has lived through your experiance and she can help. Your mom will help you find a bra and talk to you about any other issues on your mind.
2007-01-12 13:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurl dnt worrie
EVERYbODY "S BODY IS DIFFRENT
Not to brag or anything but i am 13 too and well i am a size b
it doesnt matter what size u r maybe you well get bigger pretty soon
OhH yeah dont wear patted bras becuse if people find out den they 4 sure will make fun of u
And like i said
it doesn't matter what size u r be happy with ur self and ur body
even though some people dont make it easy.......have some confidens in ur self
2007-01-12 14:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by ¤ஐ*T£@§£*ஐ¤ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you athletic and lean? Often those with athletic/lean builds have smaller breasts as breasts are fat tissue really. Either way, give it time. You still have a few years to develop breasts. Though it's not totally 100% sure-fire, look at your mom, aunts, grandmothers.... often breast size runs in the family. Maybe you'll find comfort there.
2007-01-12 13:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Chic-y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if i was u i would wear a padded bra i woul dnt wanna be left out in the croud of boobs!! lol just follow ur instincs n do wut they tell u have da time dey is right
2007-01-12 13:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jay-j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares what people say... your only 13 give it time they will grow some girls mature quicker then others not all 13 yr old girls are ''big''
2007-01-12 13:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you just want to fit in with everyone else
2007-01-12 13:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by shy e 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same here
idk what to do...
2007-01-12 13:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋