My husband is away for a while. These married guys are goofing off with me, but it kinda seems like they are flirting with me. Are they all cheaters or am I just taking it the wrong way? I love my husband and I'm really happy being married to him. What's up with these guys?
2007-01-12 13:25:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
These are all guys at work that my husband does not know. However, they all know that he is away and I talk about him all the time.
2007-01-12 13:35:41 · update #1
Man, some of those answers are...well... out to lunch to say the least. For the record I am a perfectly happy, married man. I don't play the game I am about to outline but I have seen it repeated what seems to b a thousand times.
The men are all married, the men all know that you are happily married. They all spent years flirting regularly before marriage and now don't get the classic "thrill of the hunt". You see, they all are aware that if they go out for a few beers or whatever and start spinning the line they might just get called on it and thus be put in a potentially awkward situation. They play it with you and they know it goes nowhere but for a few brief seconds they relive the glory and harm no one.
This is simplified but I think encompasses what's happening. Or they're just dogs lookin for a little, but I doubt it.
2007-01-12 14:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by greyboxer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just flirting innocently with you for fun. Then again maybe they are seeing how far you will take this. I would suggest that you constantly mention your husband and how happily married you are. In case they had any other intentions at least that way they would know that you are not interested in them in that way. Some guys just get a buzz out of attention from other women, married or single. Best of luck to you
2007-01-12 13:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men love what they can't have. So it depends ... are they friends of your husbands? do you know them or did you meet them? Do they know your husband is gone? Not all men are cheaters... maybe they are trying to be nice and keep you company.. and maybe you are taking it the wrong way... but maybe not.. maybe they know your husband is gone and they are trying to get in your pants... you need to talk to them before someone crosses the line and something bad happens. Bring a friend with you and sit down and tell them that you are uncomfortable with they way they are acting towards you and you would like it to stop. That you love your husband and want them to just stop! i wouldn't hang out with these guys alone I would always have more than one friend with you... don't put yourself in a bad situation.. hope this helped.. and goodluck
2007-01-12 13:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men and women who are perpetual flirts and always will be. It does not always mean that they want more! They could be goofing with you or they could be getting a vibe from you. Who knows, only you do! If you are committed with your husband than you already know what needs done. Stay away from other men! Hope it all works out!
2007-01-12 13:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats unusual. both he's fairly busy or he's ignoring you for some reason. attempt leaving a message and asking him to call you. Then see what occurs. Does that advise you are able to come over now babe?? :) good success! <3
2016-10-30 23:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are flirting with you. You poor thing!
I hope your husband gets back real soon, or there is no telling what might happen.
2007-01-12 13:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit talking about him at work, your going to wind up in an affair if you aren't careful. One of these guys is going to become a good friend that will eventually "help" you with loneliness.
Keep your personal life personal.
2007-01-12 13:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men will be men, weather your married or not!!.. they would flirt with a fish if they thought they were going to get some thing out of it!!
2007-01-12 13:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by West-Lnds-Finest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you hanging out with a bunch of married men. Are you looking for attention?
2007-01-12 13:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are like dogs, they sniff around when the big dog is gone and try to get his territory....they don't care, so make a reason to stay away from them and keep them away from you.
2007-01-12 13:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Michael O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋