is my girlfriend dumping me? Please explain...i know she is under SO MUCH stress right now. And it's making her crazy.....read what she sent to me through text.
Dear Mike,
I think you need to get your priorities straight and such. I'm really hurt and i can't take being hurt anymore. I hope you understand where i am coming from...i will always remember you. You have a place in my heart forever. Please just enjoy yourself tonight...bye"
(IS SHE DUMPING ME??) I'm confused
2007-01-12 12:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I read you other question about note 1. She is probably under stress because she is not feeling important in your life. I think she wants things to change, but she is being hurt by you, take that part seriously. Shes probably had enough of the arguements. Shes probably had enough of not feeling important in your life. When you love someone you want to be with them, you dont want to go out and play poker without each other....why couldnt you have taken her with you? Do you want her to be a part of your life or not, or do you want your single life and she just hangs around doing what you expect of her? When she said you need to get your priorities right, she means she wants you to consider her first, not when everything you want to do comes first. It may not be the case, but its how she is seeing it. If you want her in your life then you will have to do some fast talking because it sounds to me like she is ready to give up on you. I believe she loves you, but cannot take being hurt anymore. Continual arguements end up grinding a person down....and I bet these arguements are about you wanting your own way and she not understanding. I may be wrong and you may not see it like this, but I guarantee thats how she sees it. She needs to be a priority in your life and she doesnt feel like she is. If you want to keep her then you have to want her as a priority...if you dont, then let her go and find someone who does.
I wish you well.
2007-01-12 13:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she is trying to lay a guilt trip on you for going out tonight. If she was dumping you I think she'd say you are dumped. The note leaves it open, it is just enough to make you think youre dumped and just enough to retract said dumping at her leisure.
She is playing games with you.
Text back and say:
I will try to have a good night but would have enjoyed it more if you'd come along too so we could be together. Seeing as you dont want that, I will be in touch tomorrow and you know where I am if you need me in the mean time.
Karma.
x
2007-01-12 13:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by angelkarmachic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is dumping u but tommorow she will be asking u what happen last night and asking for u back. She is testing u to c if u r going to cheat on her read the keywords.
2007-01-12 12:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 10:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm she's trying to dump you. And it isn't easy for her.
And you begging her back isn't going to help. What's up with your priorities, BTW? And how did you hurt her?
Crap, I think I'm mad at you:)
2007-01-12 12:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumped.
Good bye
2007-01-12 12:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's signing off on the relationship..........however my son and his gf have broken up at least once a week for the past year so I don't know if its for good
2007-01-12 12:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it and I checked your other note... It sounds like maybe it is for both your sakes. Good luck to you both.
2007-01-12 12:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it but not knowing the rest of the situation I can't really say....
2007-01-12 12:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is.Hear what she is saying.
2007-01-12 12:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋