I'm really scared, I feel so alone, like noone loves me. And I just can't stop thinking that. I've been hurt so much that I am losing myself, losing all the happiness I used to possess. I'm so scared. What do I do? I don't have anyone to talk to. I told my best friend I love him, but he didn't say it back. And now, I fell like I've lost him, even though he says he still wants to be friends. I just wish I had someone who loved me, someone I could talk to, but I don't know how to find them.
2007-01-12 12:44:21 · 12 answers · asked by malohalo_89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listin hun i know it feels that way but you just have to look at all the postive stuff and not the bad some guys are just scared to say it there is probly nothing wrong with you trust me there is people out there who love you just give it time i hope everything works out for you email me if you need someone to talk to bye
2007-01-12 12:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by His girl forever!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go join a club or something! Get a membership to a gym, join a chess club, take an acting class, or something where you can learn something new and meet new people also. That way, your brain is learning while socializing! One of the best ways to meet new friends is to go look for them. And don't feel like no one loves you; there's someone in the world who definitely does, even if you don't know it. If you feel so alone or scared you need to cut or do something dangerous to yourself, DON'T. If you have to, look in the mirror and say out loud your good physical points (not the bad ones!). You can even take a piece of paper and make a list of good things about you, like a sense of humor or a knack for solving puzzles. It really works, because it helps you see what a great person you are. I hope that this helps, and you get over this!
2007-01-12 20:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lalalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could talk to your mother or some teacher or someone you respect..Sometimes our problems seem overwhelming, but find someone to talk to..IF the guy is still your friend maybe a little later you may feel like confiding in him...He has to care to tell you he still wants to be friends...that at times is a lot better that bf...Try something that will help you..good luck
2007-01-12 20:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I told my best friend that I loved her like two years ago when we were seniors in hs and now she doesn't ever talk to me, we were friends since 2nd grade. I had feeling for another friend but she got pregnant with someone else. I even tried but failed to hook up with another friend, she got pregnant too.
Your not alone, everyone goes through this, its life, I'm still single and I rarly talk to my friends because I discovered what I want in life, my career. I been there, but my career has helped me.
2007-01-12 20:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you have anyone to talk to Hon? How about your family? Do you go to church? Do you have friends in school? You have friends, more than you know. You have just forgotten. So see your old friends, Hon and start being happy again. I love you if no one else does because you an important person to me. No one needs to be alone, so don't be.
2007-01-12 20:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have someone you just aren't thinking they will listen. Just cuz your best friend didn't say it back doesn't mean he doesn't feel the same way, you probably just surprised him. Hope this helps you.
2007-01-12 20:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by snowbody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realx...go out to club or walk around and just make new friends
work school stuuf like that
u might be depress ask for help !
u can e-mail me but i can only be a e-mail friend wont help u need physical friends i guess
2007-01-12 20:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals. Be yourself and new relationships will happen. If you are spinning out of control, seek out help with professionals. Check your phone book under counseling.
2007-01-12 20:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by david80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! Okay, so u told your firend you loved him, so what. he'll get over the initial shock eventually.LOL. truthfully, its going to be okay. just don't let it change u. your relationship with your friend will change, maybe for the better, maybe not. but don't let it change you. treat your friend like you always have.k? take care.
2007-01-12 20:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is like that to almost everyone sometimes, but don´t give up. things will get better with time. you can always talk to us. :)
2007-01-12 20:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋