is this normal? we are trying to start a family..
2007-01-12 12:43:47 · 24 answers · asked by iris m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
stay laying flat, or go into a head stand immediatly after he finishes his business, this will help the goo flow to where it needs to.
2007-01-17 20:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sperm doesnt stay inside the womens body noticably..the leftovers of course have to come out. After sex preferably missionary or from behind lay on your back with your legs straight up in the air for like 10-15 minutes..works like a charm!!
2007-01-12 20:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal!
And you don't have to lay down after the deed in order to conceive. I conceived standing up! Those sperm are designed to get where they need to go. My theory is, the sperm that leak back out with the extra fluids aren't sperm you want anyway: if they weren't strong enough and fast enough and healthy enough to get to the egg, they wouldn't make a healthy baby. Just my theory, not a doctor or anything!
Good luck!
2007-01-12 20:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by crazyjmommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. I stayed in bed for ten or fifteen minutes the first two times we got pregnant, but the third time was a surprise. So, yes, it is messy, but it still works!
2007-01-12 20:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It's completely norm i have a year old son now and the same thing would happen to me and my husband. But remember it only takes one sperm to make a baby and what goes up must come down lol. Good luck keep everyone posted.
2007-01-20 04:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think i ever had sex that wasn't messy...lol!!! I'm a mom of three and i suggest laying on your back for awhile after sex. I do recall when i got pregnant, my husband would be on top ( i would be laying on my back) after he would finish (instead of getting up) he would leave himself inside for awhile. It seemed to work, plus alot of stuff didn't come out all of a sudden.
2007-01-17 09:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's normal. Try laying down for a while after the 'baby making'. All the right stuff will get where it needs to go. ;)
Good luck!
2007-01-12 20:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by farmersdaughter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're not ovulating. Generally, this will happen if you aren't ovulating because your cervix is closed and noting does go in. Try having sex 10 to 14 days after your period starts. for more information on tracking your ovulation cycles go to www.mymonthlycycles.com
2007-01-19 22:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wanted to be a smartass, I'd say "Is it the right hole?" but truthfully, I feel your pain and know how tough it is. Try lying down after sex, and don't worry about the mess. Good luck!
2007-01-12 20:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its coming out then it surely went in lol
A sure way to try to conceive is to wait until your ovulating, you can track yours by finding an ovulation calendar online.
It doesnt take all of it to make a family it only takes one of those little swimmers out of the millions ;)
Good luck
2007-01-12 20:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by BrunettesRbetter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
During sex lie on your back with your hips raised up on a pillow, after lie like that for 20 to 30 minutes. It worked for me. Good luck!!!!
2007-01-20 01:03:07 · answer #11 · answered by mother of Bridezilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋