2007-01-12 12:35:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people are naturally outgoing and talkative if its hard for you try introducing yourself to people. And if the conversation gets quite don't sweat it i once heard to break the ice ask people about their favorite thing to talk about which is.... themselves:) find simialar intrests like sports or shopping. Good Luck!!
2007-01-12 12:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy for most people. Some are just better actors than others. Watch for those who are obviously having a hard time making friends and reach out to them. 2 things are likely to happen - First, you'll make some new friends because you tried. And then, you'll probably make some friends because someone else noticed that you tried and will reach out to you.
Just be yourself and open to meeting others and you will.
2007-01-12 12:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize first that we are all pretty much the same as different as we seem. So we actually have a lot in common. I think it involves a lot of talking. Most of the friends I had when I was younger are no longer friends you move on and make new ones. I think the harder you try maybe the harder it is. I have friends of different ages and races so I do not just try to hang out with one type of person.
2007-01-12 12:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you're going through. Even though I don't have a hard time making friends, it's hard for me to find that perfect friend whom I can tell absolutely everything and anything to. It's easier for some people to make friends because they're more open, and they're just born social. If you're not that social, try joining a club at school, and make friends that way!
2007-01-12 12:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all unique in our own little way. Some people just have the nitch to go out there and make friends these people are called extravert's (out going) while others are introverts (private). Our personalities tell us a lot bout who we are. If you want to meet more people and make friends you must try to be a little more extroverted and be yourself. Never try to impress anybody. Go with the flow when you feel comfortable and things will fall into place.
2007-01-12 12:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person has their own personality. For instance you could be a recluse and have no idea how to make friends or like me I make friends very easily. I have a friendly personality and I actually will talk to a complete stranger and shake their hand. I don't talk to all strangers and I am very careful of who I meet. Try it sometime when your standing in front of a coffee shop, mall or even a tavern.
2007-01-12 12:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mostly what i do is observe the other people making friends and mostly what they do is be nice like saying "i really like your jacket or i love your outfit" just start off with the simple things all u got to do is say something nice and they will respond.
2007-01-12 12:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its easy for anybody. You just have to be yourself, you can't just sit by and hope someone comes by and talks to you. it doesn't happen that way hon. Say hi to someone. thats a start right. then just take it from there. hope i helped.
2007-01-12 12:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are just more outspoken and out going, just gotta people interested in you nothing hard about it
2007-01-12 12:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not easy for me either and i am one of the other thin its not easy also for some other
2007-01-12 12:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by hisam_12111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋