my friend "BOB" likes my b/f and they are x s. i feel bad cause she likes him and i go out with him! and she had a plenty of chances with him ! but she was allways the one to break up with him and ask him back out! what should i do?! and dont say break up with him or have a 3 some! that is plain nasty! and dont say im not a good freind because i am!!!
2007-01-12 12:30:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its nothing to do with being a good friend or not....she DID dump him so thats her loss...if u like him and he likes u then well tough **** for her huh? thats not being a bad friend....she's a bad friend for trying to break u two up so she can be with him again....she had her chances its ur turn to see how things go.
2007-01-12 12:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't even THINK about a threeway!!!
Kitty she doesn't like him that much, or else she wouldn't keep breaking up with him. Regardless though, this will probably put a strain on your friendship, and you may in the end have to decide if this guy's worth it. She could surprise everyone, act mature about it, and tell you to have at it...but it's unlikely.
Boys come and go, but real friends are forever...so decide which means the most to you and good luck.
2007-01-12 12:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with your friend. Tell her that she had many chances and that they obviously weren't good for each other if she broke up with your b/f several times. What does she think is different now? Sometimes you can be friends better than g/f, b/f. She should let YOU try to make him happy without worrying about her trying to get him back.
2007-01-12 12:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by She Devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya exactly she had her chances and now u have him so dont feel bad becuase u r right she did have plenty of oppertunitys and she was the one who broke up and u do sound like a good friend soo i would just say ignore her he is with u now
2007-01-12 12:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do something? If you trust your BF and Bob, why can't you just enjoy BF and let them work their own stuff out. Its different if you thought they were screwing around. Your BF should always make you feel like you're the only one. As long as you're secure and trusting them, just enjoy!
2007-01-12 12:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it. She had her chance and she didn't take it. Your a good friend, you stood back and let them have their time. It didn't work so now you are exploring what could be. I hope it works out for you!
2007-01-12 12:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice that you care about your friend and her well being, but what do you want? I think if you like him date him. Your friend had many chances she blew it. It is your time to worry about you. Enjoy it have fun and you never know what will happen. (Wedding Bells, and a future) who knows.
2007-01-12 12:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to be a good friend and back off, she had her chance (several times over), now its your turn to see where things go.
2007-01-12 12:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously--you gotta talk to your friend and your boyfriend about it it is the only way to figure out the absolute way to fix this probelm
2007-01-12 12:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. She broke it off with him.
Good Luck
2007-01-12 12:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋