Ok. Say your friend has a son. And hes 5 years older than your daughter. She started likeing him when she was 12/13 and he was 18. If shes 15 and hes 20, would you let them date? But you and your friend have known each other for a long time, and you've known him since he was young. And you know hes a good kid and all, but would you let her date him.? What would be your biggestr concerns? Help me......Please!!
2007-01-12 12:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by Rhea Lynn <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sure why not.
2007-01-12 12:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No good parent would allow her 15 year old daughter to date a 20 year old MAN.
18 is not a kid
20 is definitely not a kid
2007-01-12 20:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by AngelWings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest concern would be that because he is 20 years old he would want to have sex with the 15 year old daughter. The age difference in all reality isn't a big one but when you have a teenager it seems bigger at the time because that is the period when teenagers start becoming adults and wanting more freedom as well as experimenting. I would definitely say sex which in this case would also be classified as statutory rape.
2007-01-12 20:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't let them date...if it was meant to be, then he will wait for her. There is SUCH a huge difference between a 15 yr old and a 20 year old. My biggest concern obviously would be sex. Let them hang out as friends only (with you guys) for a while. When she is 18, then they can date.
2007-01-12 20:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy to 2 cuties 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you know the parents and what kind of people they are. That is a tough question I have a daughter and she will not date until she is 16 and If he really likes her he will wait
2007-01-12 20:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by sydphie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the age of 15 it is against the law for a 20 yr. old to date her.
2007-01-12 20:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by ash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem. You watched him grow up and know he's a good boy. What better type of fine young man could date your daughter?:)
2007-01-12 20:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No..
Not 15 / 20
maybe 17 / 25...
2007-01-12 20:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
5 yrs. is not a lot when you are older, but in the young years, it is a lot...If anything goes wrong in the relationship, it may do in he friendship...there are a lot of things to consider...you are the mom and you know the whold situation...so good luck in you choice...
2007-01-12 20:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest concern would be her getting hurt.But if you know he's a good boy they I would let her date him.
2007-01-12 20:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its normal to date.
I think you worry to much.Why you think negative?Have a nice conversation with your daughter and trust on her!
2007-01-12 20:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋