i dont know if my ex still has feelings for me or not he sometimes show he does but i dunno. we broke up 2 month ago and been in contact. we saw each other last month. he said he missed me and stuff. i ask him if he would start seeing me again n he said possible in future n he needs a break now. he also said he has some feelings for me...and he tried to make-out w/ me too.. i didnt let him cus i didnt feel comfortable..
and he said he will cook for me on my bday nxt month and all these things he say......i dunno how to deal with it???
help!!
2007-01-12 11:05:12 · 3 answers · asked by julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to respect yourself. I know may be you really love this guy and so don't mind waiting for him, but he is obviously taking advantage of you. If he can't see how wonderful you are and want to be in a relationship with you now, he's not worth it. He will only keep hurting you. You need to move on from him and find someone who really respects and loves you. You deserve to be with someone who can't stand the thought of not being with you - not someone who 'needs a break'!
2007-01-12 11:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by melissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and good for you for not letting him make out with you if you still have feelings for him tell him to make a choice either he is there with you or not don't let him come and go as he pleases if he does not want to make the commitment you want then he is not worth the heart ache and there IS someone out there for you who will respect you and enjoy spending time with you but if you keep giving this fool your time your not going to find that person
2007-01-12 20:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry it sounds like he is keeping you on the shelf in case he doesn't find what he really wants, and you are there just in case. Let him know what you think and what you want, put him on the spot to see if he is being honest or what
2007-01-12 19:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋