ok, so one of my closest friends, ISN"T EATING, she's trying to lose weight fast. what do i do, do i try to interfere with this and help her? or do i just sit and wait till it takes its own course and hope it doesn't get too serious?
im really worried about her. i don't want her to hurt herself anymore.
2007-01-12 11:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by aaron m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if it goes on talk to her mom. she doesn't know i guess everything else she might lose. her hair will fall out, her nails will not grow, she may have her skin break out. she can get mouth sores, bad breath, and weaken her teeth, she may do damage to her organs too. getting the right nutrition is more important that she knows. look up some info for her too. do not pay attention to her after that in that area. just leave her alone. talk to any adult she may listen to if it continues. good luck.
2007-01-12 11:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by annilori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her starving dosen,t work it one makes you lose 1 pound a week, i tryed the body shouts down and keeps the fate in tell her if she eats pepers and oatmeal not at the same time oatmeal for breakfast, chicken and pepers for dinner, a energy bad for lunch. 2L of water a day and walk 45mins 3 days a week,then she will lose the wait also it she uses diet pills cat cutts at gnc store she can lose weight fast.
2007-01-12 11:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her fav food and eat it right in front of her. When she starts salivating say oh are you hungry and give her some..If that doesn't work then tell her she needs to eat at least enough to stay alive. Because you would hate to see her so skinny finally but in a casket.
2007-01-12 11:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her she's going to die, that won't do anything.
Tell her this: "Not eating won't do anything for you except make you hungry. Your metabolism slows down when you don't eat, so you're still losing just as much weight as when you started your "diet". It's pointless."
And then help her find a diet that works for her.
Good luck
2007-01-12 11:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by OwNaGeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not eating will just get you unhealthy and tired and sick. sure it MIGHT get one thin, but the cons outnumber the pros.
yes, interfere, you are being a good friend. tell her parents if you have to, or talk to her personally.
you are a very nice friend for worrying about her.
2007-01-12 11:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. my friend did the same thing This is what i did
-told her she could die if she doesnt eat
-brought a lunch to school and wouldnt get up untill she ate it all
-told her a million times that she is not fat
2007-01-12 11:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are worried and you don't want anything to happen to her because you care and you think she is beautiful and skinny.
2007-01-12 11:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LuV my preppyness♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents. tell them to keep it confidential. hopefully that will end it right there and you did the right thing. IMHO
2007-01-12 11:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a friend you will tell her parents or the school nurse. she maybe mad but a real friend would tell.
2007-01-12 11:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by silentjealousy77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her to a doctor FAST
2007-01-12 11:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by calvin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋