I found out my husband was sending viral videos of dogs humping, monkey love humping, a masturbating 101 of a woman masturbating, a sex scene from Team Captain America, a viral video of a man with a guitar singing why women should let men do you no what in their mouth to a woman he works with. I was very upset when I found out about this. How would you handle this situation. When I told him how I felt he said I was overracting and that's how they play around at work.
2007-01-12 10:54:43 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a customer of our company's (he's male) and he sends me erotic porn things to look at. I don't think that this guy is attracted to me.....he sends it to me because I get a kick out of it. My husband on the other hand gets mad at me because this guy sends porn to me.....I am not sure why?? I understand that you are upset about him sending porn to his co-worker, but it doesn't mean he is attracted to her nor he wants to have sex with her.
2007-01-12 11:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-18 23:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not only wrong in what he does but VERY wrong. This goes way beyond even having an affair.
The real question is how that woman feels about it. I have never in my life met a woman who would find this a turn on or even funny. What does this say about her?
And one other thing to consider. Is he doing this on the up and up or is he doing this anonymously? Does she know who it is?
You need to get to the bottom of this and if he won't help go to that woman at work and find out her side of the story.
If you have her e-mail address use it and tell her who you are and what you know...or go see her if you can.
Regardless of what you find out you are not over-reacting. At best this is a sexual thing with both of them. And how degrading can you get.
2007-01-12 11:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
that is something to be worried about - that is not right weather he sends it to a girl at work or one of his buddies. If he can not respect your feelings - that is a bigger issue that I would say counseling for you, him and the 2 of you together...
2007-01-12 11:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by megzz79 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think I would be very mad and I think he would have to leave until I can get it together and find how I am going to handle his little problem.
2007-01-12 11:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tangula G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be prepared for him to come home and say he was "fired" for sexual harrasement. All anyone has to say is "he's creating a hostile work envrionment and boom he's out of a job.
2007-01-12 11:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know any of his co-workers well, you could ask them if they do stuff like that, too???
Since you asked him already, and he gave you an answer, you should either drop it, or just ask him how he would feel if you'd do stuff like that.
2007-01-12 11:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by avechm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How they 'play around' huh? Well I think I would tell him we can either 'play around' at a counselor's office or at the attorney's. His choice.
2007-01-12 11:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not overreacting. That's not just a form of cheating, Its disgusting!
2007-01-12 11:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to lighten up lady its just stupid vids
2007-01-12 11:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋