I left the house because he kept telling me he wanted a divorce. I filed divorce paper three months age. While I was filing the paper work he would not want to talk to me ,ignore me and did'nt want even see his kids.I stayed at my moms intill I got a new place now, And he telling me he wants to only be with me but , sexual stuff. I feel like he just trying to get me into bed.
2007-01-12 10:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by melly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your instincts are usually right. Tell him to go to hell!
2007-01-12 10:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to get some, but he might also feel some regret and want you back. You probably know him best, so you'll have to trust your instincts.
I've known guys who were anxious to get divorced because they had another woman they were interested in. However during the separation, they split with the new girl and decided they wanted to go back to their wife. Could this be a possibility? And if so, what will you do?
2007-01-12 10:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are right........ You are moving forward, he is trying to move back. Nothing has changed with him. Everything is changing with you. You have no room for him in your life now. He got what he wanted. Don't let him pull you into an emotional hole, he won't help you out and you will be left to pick up the peices again.
2007-01-12 10:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing u, for the fool. he waited this long, let u file for divorce, and now wants u, just u. if u believe him u are going to be making a bad mistake. he can't just keep coming back into your life, whenever it suits him. what he has done is inexcusable, to your emotions, self worth, and mental state. u shouldn't sleep with him again, as he was probably with somebody else. they usually want a divorce when there is someone else in their life. best to be alone awhile than with someone who treats u with such disrespect.
2007-01-12 10:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope......don't let him. If he didn't want you then, he don't need you now. All his plans after leaving you must have fell through. After all he put you through, now he want's to talk about getting back together. So, if you and him get back together, how long will this time last? Tell him to take a hike. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-12 10:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him at a public place at first and have him talk with you there first... Find out what he wants and let him know that if all he wants is sex you are not going to do it! Be firm!
2007-01-12 10:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just trying to get you into bed. dont fall for it.....
2007-01-12 10:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! He is! Say No!
2007-01-12 10:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think u r right
2007-01-12 10:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋