i met her in work fell head over heals for each other we had 5 kids between us from 3+ to 19+ then she just left. and won't talk and explain - can't help but feel for her as she is 14 yrs younger. guess she doesn't quite understand love or am i the old fool? only three lived with us her two youngest boys 3+ 6+ and my 15+ daughter my other two are with there mum. i have a good relation ship with my ex because of the kids but hers is a fresh break and he hates me , can't blame him but my ex is happy for me - think hes can't get her head round this perhapes.
2007-01-12 10:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by mickeyblueeyes777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont forget her. forget the hurt she caused and think about all the good times and be thankful that she gived u good memories. it's unfortunate she didnt explain what was hurting her, it looks like she needs some time to figure things out. give her space and call her when u think she'll respond.
2007-01-12 11:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by gentle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her back, propose to her. Tell her that since she left you realised that you couldn't imagine life without her around. You need her and enjoy being with her.
(include that you will get viagra - if you need them!)
If she doesn't come back, go to the nearest motobike shop, buy yourself some leathers, a bike and a medallion, go dye your hair blond and go get yourself girlfriend younger that she is.. that will get her really upset.
Life to short to dwell on things which hurt us. let her be happy and get on with life...
2007-01-12 11:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is little consolation, I know, but only time will deal with it.
Pity that you did not marry her earlier, though, then all this may have been avoided.
2007-01-16 07:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your first love you better do what you can to get her back because you will think,[why] the rest of your life i let mine go!
2007-01-12 12:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by rhg1947 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and Fu ck her best mate!
2007-01-12 10:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋