My mate is 25 and we have been good friends for years, and in that time he has had numerous girlfriends. However, i have lately discovered that he keeps spending a lot og time with his younger brother who is aged 19. It isn't as though it is brotherly love - it seems much more than that! They are both biologically related but i fear they may be having gay sex together as i surprised my mate the other day by turning up at his house unexpected and he was in only his underwear when he opened the door - And when i went in, his brother was wearing only a pair of boxers too!!! His brothers bed wasn't made neither, and it was about 2pm!!! I know this is guess work, but i am sure they are both having sexual intercourse - And the fact that there was a pack of condoms out on the floor of the bedroom doesnt help! What do i do?
2007-01-12 10:37:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you have to do anything? I don't think that any action is required.
If you want to do something you could try not jumping to conclusions.
2007-01-12 10:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On checking your other question I note that you are indeed gay or at least thinking about it - and that, I suppose, is how you managed to get two and two to make five here.
It seems to me you WANT there to be something going on between these two brothers to satisfy your own particular tastes perhaps. I don't know but it certanly seems innocent to me as I grew up with brothers and I know that they never made their beds and often walked around semi-naked, especially when they had just got up. If there had been anything going on, do you think they would have answered the door to you?
You are a little bit obsessed with the dark side, I think - go out and get some air, take up a sport or something!
2007-01-12 15:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not know any secret! If I were you I would keep my mouth firmly shut.
Many members of the same family feel comfortable about walking around naked or in their underwear around each other. They are also open about their sex life.
What you saw when you went round to your mates house were two brothers lounging around the house, probably hung over or tired from having company the night before. You really have the wrong idea. So what if he is spending time with his brother, it IS his BROTHER for gods sake!!
Your mind is suspicious and twisted and I think you should go and see a therapist about your twisted thoughts.
what type of friend are you!!! you say you have a secret (which is simply rubbish) and you have just told the whole world!!
2007-01-12 10:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that's awkward when you consider that often times human beings have a tendency to initiate spending better time with their new gf/bf than their ideal chum. this can propose your brother being pushed far flung from his ideal chum for you. in case you sense smooth with it, the perfect component to do might want to be to discuss it immediately up such as your brother and his chum. in the journey that your brother concurs to it, congrats yet nonetheless tread heavily. If he would not agree, that's the perfect element. If this be the case, you should both conform to placed your thoughts aside for the perfect. in spite of each and everything, friendships are for existence although relationships not so long. that's a clumsy problem yet in case you flow about it the right way im particular it is going to paintings out. solid success :-)
2016-12-02 04:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by broadway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that their brothers who go out on the piss, sleep late, don't make their beds and ooowww have sex with other people, just like every other man on the planet.
2007-01-12 10:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by charlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do nothing its none of your business what he does he is old enough and wise enough to mae his own decisions in life
you are probably wrong and then what would your accusations prove other than your spitefull ill bred nosey poke
if they are so what and what the hell has it to do with you
remember this what goes around comes around if you cast smoke with out fire expect the same treatment back on yourself one day
grow up
2007-01-12 11:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should do anything, at the end of the day he is you mate and you should stick by him, if this is really going on which i doubt im sure he will learn from his mistakes, just stay close to comfort him if he needs it
2007-01-12 11:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could just ask your 'friend' the question or then again maybe they are not having sex but are just lounging around after a night of sexual intercourse with women? its a possibility
2007-01-12 10:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by confused 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not do anything, you dont have firm evidence and if you do say anything and you are wrong (and I think you might be) you could find yourself without a friend and a reputation for being a sick puppy!
2007-01-12 11:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Denise H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take one of the brothers on a date, you might like him and it'll end it. Or they might be bi and like to have abit of fun, or they might of been jerkin off together over a gay porno. you just dont know, leave it alone, its not worth it, you can find another nice guy out there. time
2007-01-12 22:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋