My husband is boring me because he don't want to do anything with me for example he don't like to have sex alot everytime we have sex it is because I want to and that is boring me and he don't want to go anywhere with but when his friends call he is already to go evertime I want to go out with him he is always tried.I have told him over and over he act like he don't care.
2007-01-12 10:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Tangula G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it is wrong. If you are not happy with you hubby, talk to him. If that doesn't work, maybe you should separate.
Cheating never solves anything, just makes things worse.
2007-01-12 15:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Newmomofone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,i'm honestly in the same boat as you! Sounds like what i'm going through!My wife is a once a monther! I have had alot of the feelings i'm sure you are having and yes i have wanted to too"look" elsewhere! But you have to stand back and look at the BIG picture! Is it just a sex thing or other problems-e.g. money,jobs,etc...Can't believe a guy turns it down but are you wanting it alittle too much?Try once a month!.Do you LOVE him? Do you have children w/him? Do you even want to be w/him anymore? Let him know exactly how you feel. Tell him that this is ruining your love and marriage. Mention seeking help and get his reaction. If he seems not to care then sorry but he possibly doesn't anymore. He could even be looking elsewhere himself! I was cheated on by my first wife and now I'M the one about in your shoes so be very carefull! A one night stand can possibly KILL a marriage that maybe just in a funk! Good luck!
2007-01-12 19:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by damiller91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds likeyou and i are in the same boat. i know exactly what your feeling. I think the best thing to do is not let him hold you back. the moreyou go out with your friends, the more it wont matter anymore and you wont be so bored. before you look though i recomend taking a break from eachother. Trial period. see how that helps! i wish i could but i have nofriends in the state we live right now! all my friends live hours away. so let me know know how that works!!
2007-01-16 17:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by teapea102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband is clinically depressed.
Men get irritable when they are depressed, and they lose interest in sex.
Ask your husband to see a doctor soon. Tell him to have his testoterone checked.
Then take a drive tot he nearest drug store and buy a copy of PlayGirl. And get some marriage counseling before you jump ship.
If things don't work out, you might feel better talking to a therapist. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-12 18:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Marc Miami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you had to much sex before you got married. Yall might need to spice it up a bit. It is very wrong to look elsewhere...thats messed up if you did..a waist of your time and life.
2007-01-12 18:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's wrong. your vows said "for better or for worse". maybe you need to find out why he doesn't want to do anything with you. maybe it's you and not him. that may be hard to accept, but you have to figure in everything if you want it to work. that's the problem with marriages these days, nobody wants to stick though the "for worse" part. they're so easy to give up.
2007-01-12 20:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ladyemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is one long run-on sentence hon. Maybe he's bored listening to this, and never finding an end.
2007-01-12 19:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong and try doing things with your husband that he likes to do also try dressing sexy for him and ask him what he wants you to do in the bedroom for him... See if he is open to counseling with you?
2007-01-12 18:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you married this man. do you remember that. you vowed before God to be with him.for better or for worse. hopefully things change for you.
2007-01-13 11:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to get a divorce and then look somewhere else...it is not really fair to do so otherwise, huh?
2007-01-12 18:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋