It’s just for whatever reason I feel I can never make love until I’m married to someone special. Don’t ask me why but that’s how I think, and it’s the reason why I’m still a virgin, and before you say it no I am not religious. But everyone else I know feels very comfortable in doing it with anyone. So why am I weird in wanting to wait till marriage to make love to someone special. When everyone I know feels so comfortable about when they are horny they can do it with anyone they want.
2007-01-12 10:22:19 · 18 answers · asked by Trevor 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
And no I’m not gay. Why are people immature on this site?
2007-01-12 10:34:20 · update #1
Your personal ethics are yours only.....Obviously your bodily ethics or sexual ethics are not those of the people around you..What's wrong with that ? Your values are different and spiritual beliefs are not wrong , even though not politically correct......Whatever the answer, i hope you continue to hold strong to the values that you have gained and cultivated in your life......Hold on to that path and broaden your values elsewhere......You are a lucky person to be as strong as you seem to be.....Congratulations ! The only weird thing about it is theres not enough people like you......
2007-01-12 10:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by cesare214 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its differant for everyone. Some people are waiting for love, some are in need of the attention and some have a higher sex drive than others.
I don't think your weird, lots of people feel the same way. We are all differant on many aspect and morals in our lives, and we shouldn't judge anyone on whether they want to wait for sex or just go out there and get it.
To some people it is an emotional act, to others emotions are not a part of it and can seperate the sex from emotions.
2007-01-12 18:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by tay7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a personal choice - you are very strong to be able to do that and I am sure your future wife will appreciate that you waited for her - there is nothing wrong with waiting until you are married and it sounds as though you take marriage seriously and view it in quite an old fashioned way - I say good on you and don't let people tell you you are weird or anything else - I am sure some of them wished they had waited!!
2007-01-12 18:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not weird! In fact i think you have more self respect than anyone else who just goes and has sex because they feel like it. whether your religious or not i think its best for you to do what you want and when you've met the one person who you think is special then its up to you =)
2007-01-12 18:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by george 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is so chivalrous in todays society, you should be commended, given a medal, wait......what's that I hear ........clapping. You are truly a gem. You will definately find someone special because you deserve her. Don't be worried about what anyone thinks about you because you are the only one who makes the choices in your life and you have no control over what anyone says about you.
2007-01-12 21:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by djdundalk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes us have different views on sex?? What makes us have different views on anything; the fact that we vary and are a species, instead of being a type. You do not know everybody, so your statement is not supported by the evidence. There may be a few more like you around. Go on the Internet; they probable have a club, or something.
2007-01-12 18:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Everyone is different that's what makes us unique. If you have a viewpoint and you stick to it, why is that weird?
You are not weird, you just have principles. Just because other people act in one way, sure as hell doesn't mean you have to.
Just make sure you get married though!
2007-01-12 18:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Finlay S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are not weird at all. as you said people have different views on sex, and yours is that you want to wait for that special someone, i really respect you and your future wife i,m sure will be lucky to have someone like you.
2007-01-12 18:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think youre weird at all but you sound like you think it,s wrong to have sex before marriage? is waiting the right thing to do?who knows .im not a fan of sleeping around but i wasnt a virgin on my wedding night either.you do whats right for you if you think it,s right to wait then wait .
2007-01-12 18:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by smiler 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
good on you. Don't let anyone make u feel like giving in. It will be worth the Wait.
2007-01-12 18:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋