ive been with him fr 2 years now.......please help
2007-01-12 10:21:05 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
That's absolutely a horrible idea. Do you honestly want a baby? then don't let him! Don't fall for the 'pull out method'- it doesn't work! Sex is a privilege, not a right, and its YOUR body, and you're the one who will be stuck being pregnant, not him! Chances are, a jerk like that will just leave you if you did end up preggers. Then what?
Talk to your doctor about the pill if you want to stop using condoms too. That's the ONLY safe way to do it! Don't fall for anything else, and stand your ground! Don't do it!
2007-01-12 10:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely do NOT let this happen. Either you use protection or there should be no sex. In fact, you shouldn't be having sex, anyway, but never mind about that at this point.
This would be a life-altering -- BAD -- path to take.
Just tell him no. If he insists, you have to get out of the relationship. It is immature and silly to think that you can risk getting pregnant at this point. You are way too young to have a child, it will prevent you from being all that you can become.
2007-01-12 14:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shars 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you've been with him for so long, you probably feel really committed to him and that's why you're having a hard time sticking up for yourself. But what you have to remember is that you are still young, and that even though this relationship feels very serious, it doesn't have to be who you spend the rest of your life with. If you get pregnant, it will be a lot harder to get an education, and most teenage mothers are headed for a life of poverty. This decision is going to effect the rest of your life, so think about that when you're feeling pressured. If you have to break up with him because he won't respect your wishes, it will be worth it, in the long run.
I just thought that it seemed like everyone was just lecturing you without understanding where you're coming from.
2007-01-12 10:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Taco girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you don't want to stop usin protection b/c check this out you are the one who gets pregnant and the way it soundz he might jst leave you . Also I am 16 also and protection is the best thing b/c you got your whole lyfe ahead of you so don't let a boi take that a way. I hope I helpd and Gud Luck!!!!
2007-01-18 02:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to be a mom at age 16? I do not think so. Always use condoms because at your age specially boys are very promiscuous. Inform your mom that you are having sex so that she can take you to the doctor for pills or injection. If your boyfriend is uncooperative with the condoms protection DUMP him. Obviously he only wants sex with you because you relieve him better than his own hand. Educate yourself about aids and VD at your local library and local public health clinic.
Remember that there are many cases of HIV positive among your age group because of promiscuity. Your mother is your best friend so talk to her right away.
2007-01-17 11:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heed "Liz G's" response. There are a lot of ramifications in your boyfriends suggestion, you might have 2 years in but I can bet you if you got pregnant, those 2 years will be gone so fast, not to mention the many STDs out there. Save yourself, be smart, protection or rejection.
2007-01-16 21:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to have a child, it will spoil the rest of your future.
by protection do you mean stop using condoms? you must be sure that you have only ever slept with him and that he has only ever slept with you. if you are sexually active you need to have an annual pap exam, you can do this at a planned parenthood if you don't want your parents to find out. and if you aren't 100% sure that your boyfriend has only ever slept with you then you need for him to get a physical exam first also. just tell him that you want to be sure so there will be no doubts in your mind and so you can get the most out of the experience, it's not that you don't trust him. you can also get birth control such as the pill at planned parenthood. is there an older female adult you can talk about your relationship with your boyfriend, including protecting yourself, about? an older relative or friend? it does make me nervous that you are trusting complete strangers with such intimate and emotional personal advice. please take care.
2007-01-12 10:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by rowereal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him NO. He is not ready to be a parent anymore than you are. Do you know anyone with a baby.? Take him over there one night and let him deal with everything the baby needs. He will change his mind real fast.
I got pregnant at 15( and I was already on the pill) It isn't fun, nor is it easy.
You know what to do, you don't need to ask us and if he doesn't stick around and respect your decision, then he isn't the one and you shouldn't have been with him in the first place.
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 10:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
say "NO!!!!" unless you want to get pregnant-i got pregnant at 17...and my whole senior year i was pregnant, I love my baby but he def. was not planned (i didn't use protection-i thought for some reason i couldn't get pregnant) well come to find out i could!! But everything i do now-i have to put him first, and im not like other 19 yr old-and i can't sleep in, or go out on weekends all the time and get drunk because now i have responsibilites....don't chance it-even anything go on the shot if he won't use protection!!
2007-01-12 13:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋