I dont want to think like this but my ex dumped me & I want his marriage to fail badly!Not because of the wife, but because of the way he did it.We had a lot of problems right from the start because I had an unplanned pregnacy that he didnt want me to have.So we argued alot.After 18mos. he came to my house 1 night and wanted to have sex with me.He said he was getting married & I thought he was joking until I seen his face and he wasnt laughing.I was totally shocked!.He is from India & I didnt understand why he was doing that.I guess we were supposed to be having our last night together. He got married &and now he talks about me &him & how unhappy he is.I cant lie I get a kick out of seeing him suffer because he broke my heart.I dont hate the wife whoever she is, but he hurt me & he was mean about it and I want him to know how that feels to be all alone.Am I wrong for that?I just want him to regret putting me through the heartache.I guess the grass wasnt greener on the other side.
2007-01-12 09:55:43 · 5 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably because you are still angry and hurt by what he did to you and to your marriage... Sounds like you may need help and counseling to get past this and to move on with your life.... What you are feeling is normal but not so good as you are letting the pain and hurt make you want to get back at him and you will not heal from this... You will have to learn to forgive him and let go and heal and to move on with your life and maybe find someone someday to have a great relationship and marriage with! I wish you the best. The grass is never greener on the other side it is always just more grass....
2007-01-12 10:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a man. He'll never be alone. He will always manipulate some soft hearted woman into taking care of him. I would move on with your life and never talk to him again. He's just a scumbag. And I'm sure he will never be happy cos most people aren't.
2007-01-12 10:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-24 21:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his marriage fails then you can blame him for your marriage failing too.
2007-01-12 10:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want his new marriage to fail because the marriage that he and you shared failed.
2007-01-12 10:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want him to be miserable, and call him a loser. Understandable.
2007-01-12 11:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋