off and on for the past 10 years I have been having sex with woman. I have a husband and two children.
Recently I began an actual relationship with a woman and can honestly say I am in love with her.
Someone told me that if you actually fall in love with a woman you are "offically gay"
I would leave my house and job and move away with her but worry about living that lifestyle.
2007-01-12 09:45:48 · 36 answers · asked by Lisa m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are a confused bisexual person. If you are in love with a woman, why not divorce you husband so he can move on and be happy. This isn't right to do to your family.
2007-01-12 09:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a person who loves another person.
Would other people consider you gay if you were to leave your husband and have a relationship with this woman - probably.
Seems like you will have to decide whether this woman is more important to you than whether or not someone else thinks you are gay.
Good luck.
2007-01-12 09:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u been gay 10 years ago and u r still gay now....but dont leave ur husband and children for a woman!
2007-01-12 09:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done the deed with both genders that makes you bi. Divorce your husband and get with the woman, that makes you gay. Keep your husband and bring in your lover and all three will be happy.
2007-01-12 09:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we are all going to be the same sex in a minute anyway, hovering in a corner of a cave waiting for something....
I have sex with women. I'm not gay, or bi or fillintheblank. I'm human. I get what I need from where I can get it.
2007-01-12 09:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So SAD! You are Sad and pathetic! How can you do that to your family? I would say this if you were cheating on your family with a
man or a woman. YES you are cheating on your F A M I L Y ! not just your husband. You need counceling. Your NOT GAY. YOU ARE JUST WRONG!
2007-01-12 13:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by SLY ONE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does your husband know about your second lifestyle? You would actually be willing to leave him and your children?
2007-01-12 09:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by ***Luvin being a mommy*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if you are gay, then you are not.
If you feel that owning up to your happiness is key to not dying with regrets then you are. Which means, you would have the courage to live the lifestyle.
2007-01-12 09:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, I think you have been gay for the last 10 years "offically".
2007-01-12 09:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by CHUCK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well technically I don't know if you are gay or not, but I know you should do what your heart tells you to do. You should accept yourself as you are. Is not your fault you are like this. Don't worry about what people think about you. Don't let other people's thoughts get to your mind. Just ignore them.♥♥♥
2007-01-12 10:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by snow shell 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋