2007-01-12 09:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by redcat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its lazy, and once you find out let me know
2007-01-12 09:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't clean up after him and spend your time in another room if it is too bad (your bedroom or office is usually a good choice). Not having to see it all the time may make it less an issue for you... eventually he will get sick of the filth and pick up.
2007-01-12 09:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are my cats, and you will have just as much luck as I will getting them to do the dishes. :)
If you both work 40 hours a week, then you should both share the housework. Tell him that and that you are only going to do as much work as he does. Once things start piling up and getting really nasty dirty, he might change his mind. If he just expects you to be his slave, then dump his lazy ***.
2007-01-12 09:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever figure out how to "fix" a lazy man, write a book. It'll sell like hotcakes!
2007-01-12 09:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check to see if there's a good trade-in program available.
2007-01-12 09:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't change .
You can ignore it and learn to live with the mess ;
or
nag and still live with the mess -because he won't change..
or expect it ; clean it up and get on with your day .
2007-01-12 10:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cannot
u cannot change a man
he obviously was that way when dating
wasn't a problem them---why a problem now
2007-01-12 09:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine too, but if you love him you'll just accept it. I'm sure you have personality traits that he could do without. Just love him.
2007-01-12 09:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
replacement is usually the best fix
2007-01-12 09:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by klunk 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not happening.
2007-01-12 09:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't enable him by doing things for him...eventually he'll clean up or do what has to be done...as long as you don't do it for him.
2007-01-12 09:21:34 · answer #11 · answered by Jeremy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋