I really think this is a dilema that much of us men need to review.
2007-01-12 08:57:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Ask her! If you don't believe her, sorry!!! Most women have physiological symptoms, such as tightening of the vaginal wall, or hardened nipples, but not all women. So there's really no way to tell. Communication is the key to great sex. Ask your girl!
Good luck!
2007-01-12 09:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by P_P_K 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As a woman, I can enjoy sex without having to have an orgasm. I think a lot of men don't realize that. Orgasms are wonderful, but we can give them to ourselves. I think men put too much pressure on themselves to make a woman orgasm. If a man takes his time and gets to know the woman and know what she likes and dislikes, then orgasm shouldn't be a problem. If he can't give her an orgasm during sex (I rarely orgasm during intercourse) then it can happen in foreplay or afterplay. I orgasm the strongest during oral sex (receiving). That is just me personally. Some women orgasm more through fingerplay, adding a vibrator to the mix, or maybe even anal sex. Every woman is different, and the pressure shouldn't be making sure she had an orgasm, but making sure you find out what her personal needs are.
2007-01-12 09:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
See that's the beauty of being a woman. We have the power to make you think we have, when in reality we didn't. You won't ever know no matter how hard you try, so stop trying already. Oh yeah don't think that if she starts shaking and all that jazz that, that's it because some women are just bad actors. Just take your time and don't make it all about you getting off and I guarantee you'll strike GOLD!
2007-01-13 11:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i'm taking it that you really need to know. After an orgasm, a womans vagina will 'pulse'. Ha, not all of us 'squirt', but we will get off. If we don't pulse, we don't get off. And most of us can fake it, and if you sleep with multiple women and not just one, you may never know. All of us are different, and your techniques probably won't work on everyone. And as said before, you can't 'make' us, it's a joint effort! More likely than not, a woman who really wants to get off will use you as a tool, and you will have nothing to do with it besides being the 'tool donator'.
2007-01-12 09:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jase 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest you cant always tell, as there is'nt alway visual evidence... Most women feel the need to fake it from time to time for various reasons; concerned about the guys feelings, to encourage the guys orgasm etc,... The key is if she keeps coming back for more then you are doing something right... Dont get to caught up with wanting her to climax. If she is not enjoying it, she will let you know... One way to help your odds is to increase the amount of foreplay. Most guys think it is waist of time, but believe me, some women enjoy it just as much as the actual sex, if not more...
2007-01-12 09:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by jonbjammin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to this old man, 59, you nor me nor my dad have ever been able to tell a blasted thing about a woman. They can hide or mask their feelings, their emotions, their life. To many women orgasm is a sometimes thing and not always need to enjoy the act. To most men it seems to be proof that they did a good job.
To some the old joke goes:
How do you tell if the woman has achieved orgasm?
The answer is "Who cares."
Were you leading us into that?
2007-01-12 09:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is a tough one...we are so good at faking that each and everyone of us can have their own particular technique that the rest of us ignore....let's see.
Maybe because you have dedicated your time and attention in stimulating her and doing what she really wants. If she trusts you ask her what she would like you could do for her...only she knows what makes her feel good. And you just follow her instructions to the word...it can't go wrong. And it is so sexy and exciting for us to have a slave, so if you become her slave you have taken the first step in truly discovering how to make a woman have a Big-O!
2007-01-12 09:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well... you can feel the woman get wetter...feel the walls inside her jerk...women can break out in goose bumps on their legs..
there is many ways...to know..I just learned at a young age...
But giving a woman oral is a good way to go...just don't do it for a few mintues ,,,,do it for 20......by then she will be ready to twist your head off..
2007-01-12 13:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright it goes like this you will feel a fluttering sensation.. I used to think that I never climaxed until this man told me that I do, because he felt me fluttering. The deeper the climax the deeper and more pronounced the fluttering.
2007-01-12 09:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her; find out what stimulates her the best. Fun fact: only 20-30 percent of women are capable of orgasm during intercourse. Giving her oral is probably your best bet.
2007-01-12 09:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by allieluvsorli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋