Sex advice (Males only)?

Question

My wife and I are going away for the weekend. I want to plan something romantic and hot. I am trying to get my wife pregnant with our first child. What should I do to make the sex dirty but romantic and hot... Any ideas? What should I wear? What acts should I perform? What should I plan?

Come on... Give a married man some help... Put downs arent appreciated.

Sorry women can answer too...

Answer 1

More info.
budget, area, etc.

Answer 2

First off, good hot dirty sex has nothing to do with getting prego. In fact, I hated getting prego sex. Sex should be fun, not scheduled work.

That said, I will tell you what I did that made my wife very hot. Get some paper and make a list of rules similar to this:

1) You are not allowed to talk unless I ask you a question.
2) When you are ready, put on the blindfold and knock on the door.

Put the note and blindfold in a box, give her the box and ask her to go out of the room and came back in say 1/2 hour. While she is gone, light some candles, heat up some massage oil, put some plastic on the bed, light some insense. When she knocks, take her by the hand and let her inside. Strip off her cloths and bath her. Take her to the bed and massage every inch of her body. If you want to get really dirty, bring a vibrator and tease her with it. Give her some oral sex, give her some intercourse.

If she is not hotter than you have ever seen her, then it's time for a new wife.

Answer 3

The best position for pregnancy is (Sorry to the other poster) missionary with her legs pulled up to her chest. Don't let her move afterward if you can help it. Try to cradle her like that for about 30 minutes to allow the little buggers time to swim to the target.

As for romance, if you want to make HER feel really special, let her do only what she feels like doing while you make her the center of your world. Have dinner brought in, her bath run, a massage and a new bathrobe waiting.

Oral sex is always a winner and I don't know what makes your woman orgasm but be sure to give her a few. If she has difficulty with that make sure she knows how beautiful you find her, inside and out and take your time.

Remember that for women sex is in their minds, rarely does it begin with our bodies. So, start with words. Lie if you have to just make her feel, through all that you say and do that she is all you will ever want, all that you need. When you kiss her, be sure to kiss all of her, not just the 'hot spots'. That little dip in the small of the back gives me goosebumps. When you do kiss her mouth, make it deep and searching.

You will do fine, mostly because I can tell by your question that you want so much to please her. Good love making is in your attitude, not in your techinque or what "acts you perform". Love her, be a lover. She'll always remember that your first baby was created during a night she can't forget.

Answer 4

You DEFINITELY need a woman's opinion on what to do for your wife...if guys knew the answers about pleasing women, you wouldn't need to ask.

If you had more time, I would suggest a book called Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men. Don't laugh - I bought it as a joke for a male friend several years ago and was SHOCKED at what really good advice the book gave. I bought a copy for my boyfriend - it's got some seriously HOT tips, but written with the idea on how to satisfy the "whole woman".

Have fun this weekend and don't put too much pressure on yourself - not good for what you're trying to accomplish.

Answer 5

I'm not a guy, but I'm going to answer because to the best of my knowledge you'll be sleeping with a woman, not a man. So on that note, considering you've already slept with her, and you know what she likes, you must have a general of what she likes. Bring some flavored oils, they sell the flavored body powder too. Use candles, i mean set them up in the room. Get her flowers, and do lots of foreplay. Don't go straight for oral, start at the top end at the bottom, talk dirty to her after you've started intercourse when you can see she's into it.

Answer 6

Try renting a room with a nice jaguzzi overlooking a nice view outside. My lady and I were at Niagara and it was fine watching the Falls while in the jaguzzi. Take her out for a real nice meal and dress appropriately and make a date like when you first started going out. As for plans they usually don't work out as planned so I much prefer to allow things to occur naturally as it feels unrehearsed and so there is nothing to worry about. Think young, have fun and let her know how grateful you are to have her in your life. Believe me you will have a great time if you just be yourself. Best of luck and more couples could learn something important if they followed your example and tried to keep their relationship fresh.

Answer 7

I am sure a married man will have no trouble thinking of something sexy and dirty to do to his wife, good way to get her pregnant is doggy style, you are closer the cervix just make sure to be all the way when ejaculating,

I would buy a anal plug to play with and some vibrators,,, use your tongue all over her body,, worry more about loving her up than you cumming,

buy some of that heated or warm lubricant too, or body paints that are edible, or bring some hersheys chocolate and spray whipped cream

Answer 8

This is pretty general, but when it comes to lingerie, you can't go wrong with anything made of silk. No, you can't see through it; it's just a more sensual fabric for many women.

When it comes to sheer fabric, you can't go wrong with black. It's basic.

If you can find one, how about a black leather blindfold. They're not expensive at all.

You blindfold her, lay her on the bed and do all kinds of delicious things to her.

Try a fluffy feather duster. Try a feather. Try a small, natural bristle paint brush. Try a cosmetic brush.

Tie her down with silk or nylon scarves.

Answer 9

Get a room with a hot tub. Just pay the dang money.

Get lube. Get chocolate. Get wine, but don't get hammered.

Order room service. For some reason, this turns women on. Maybe us not being cheap is a turn on?

Get extra towels...you'll be taking a lot of showers.....

Just take your time. ASK her if there is anything, ANYTHING, she would like you to do. If she wants you to lick her 10 times in a row, just do it.

Have a good weekend dude.

Oh yeah - don't eat big meals....

Answer 10

Don't try to look sexy when men do it looks gay, silly. whip cream and some blind folds for you or her ask her who wants to go first. I like to tie my man up he hates it not having control and all. Talk a little dirty in her ear when you do it but give her a heads up first so she knows its a part of the eve, not what you think of her. Defiantly get Jacuzzi room very hot.

Answer 11

Put a blindfold over her eyes and tell her that a friend is going to do a few little things. Then begin touching, stroking, kissing her here and there. Take your time. Take a LONG time.