My best friend hates me! She is just so jealous of me. Like everyday she goes home and gets all upset and cries because she doesn't know why I have to be so pretty. Personally I don't think I'm all that. I mean yeah people think I'm attractive and all and almost all of her crushes asked me out. Of course I turned them down cuz she's my BFF and I just couldn't do that to her. But anyways at my school I'm known for dressing nice every day and looking cute. But don't get me wrong, I'm not stuck up or anything. In fact, I'm not even popular! I just like looking nice. I can't help it if I care about my appearance. But she just doesn't get it. And I think it makes her feel worthless cuz none of the guys she's ever liked felt the same way about her. I feel bad and if I was in the same situation I'd probly be jealous of me too. Well, she is just a tad overweight and if I tell her that she doesn't need to lose weight she'll know I'm lying. I just don't know what to say to her. HELP!!!
2007-01-12 08:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You like to look nice. So you are probably good at dressing and hair and makeup. Help her get nicer, take her shopping, show her how to put make up or do her hair. Take her for long walks. Be honest to her, tell her you don't want to ruin it for her, and that you cannot be blaimed for looking the way you look. If you want you can show her your question, i think you are really honest and if she reads this and she loves you as her friend then she will understand you.
2007-01-12 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too funny. There is a thin line between being confident, and being vain, your entire story put you leaps and bounds over the vanity line. Since she is your best friend, and you have all of this fashion since then help build her confidence up. Or; are you afraid that if you did help her, she may look better than you. Be careful how you answer this question. If she is your best friend, you would say, well that doesn't bother me, I want her to look better than me, then I know I helped someone I care about. Or; you may say, shyyyt, she could never look better than me. Then you aren't her friend at all, and you are using her to make you look good. See if you are all that, then it won't bother you to make her look just as good or even better than you.
2007-01-12 09:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you're acting like those girls from that movie "Mean Girls" and the book "Queen bees and wannabes". Sometimes you ladies can be so rude and mean to each other. I'd never hate on my best friend and if we had a problem then I'd talk it out him. I think a few women out there like drama in their life. If you're really BFF with this other lady then talk to her about you'll problems and work them out!!!
2007-01-12 09:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no wonder she hates you.
I am sure that SHE does not consider you a best friend.
If she does, she needs her head examined. The things that YOU have said about her lead me to think that you might want to change your ways as you wont have ANY friends.
p.s. they guys that ask you out probably dont stay around long
your attitude is horrible
2007-01-12 08:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
your friend is very insecure. she needs some counseling she needs to know that they're plenty of guys that like plus size women that thin is not always in. some one needs to lift her spirits up. just be there for her. try to tell her that shes pretty just the way she is. and rent her moniques phat girlz that will pick her up and its inspirational.
2007-01-12 16:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are so pretty why do you care that an ugly fat girl who cant get a man wants to be friends with you or not.
I would think her self esteem is extremely higher than yours
2007-01-12 08:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by onestepbeyond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just sit her down (private) and just talk to her and tell her how you feel and ask her how she fells and just try to work it out if that doesn't work then ask some one else to talk to her if THAT doesn't work then just try to let the situation go and maybe she will get over it or maybe ask one of crushes if they like her and try to hook them up then.
2007-01-12 08:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by omarionlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is unreal
do you hear yourself?
I hope that your 'friend' reads the things you wrote and decides that you arent worth the effort
2007-01-12 08:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, get someone else to talk to her. and you go with. and try to get a guy to come, too. this is seriously bad, IM me immediatley!
2007-01-12 08:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by ~Pom!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one is a bit full of themselves
Beauty is only skin deep!
2007-01-12 08:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋