I'm 18 and I have three children with my ex-husband who was 19. But I recently got married again a couple weeks ago to this 28 year old. My little twin girls just adore him and I just had my little boy 2 days ago. Do you think my family will be better off with my new husband?
2007-01-12 08:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I sure hope so, since you married him.
2007-01-12 08:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your life sounds really sad - 18 years old, FOUR kids, already divorced and married for the second time!
Damn - you've lived enough for two lifetimes and you're not even old enough to drink yet!
You must have started having kids when you were 15 - and it sounds like you've been almost continually pregnant for the last 4 years.
Did you even have a first period or have you been so constantly pregnant that you've never actually had a full menstrual cycle between pregnancies?
More importantly - did you even finish High School, or even get a GED? Have you ever actually had your own job or your own money?
When I was 18 I was struggling through my first semester in college and working part time at a supermarket.
I feel bad for you - you never got a chance to be a young adult and you got thrust straight into middle age right out of your teens!
2007-01-12 08:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are just a child and already divorced and remarried. I don't know that it is nessacarilly age that makes him a fit father as much as it is reposibility and maturity. Typically 28 year olds are much more responsible than 18 year olds. But he knocked you up before he married you so I don't know how resposnible he is. You need to just focus on your children from here on out and not your sex life. Besides you already married him- isn't it a little late to be asking this question. I assume the baby is his. You should have asked that BEFORE you slept with him.
2007-01-12 08:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are better off with your new husband, it will have nothing to do with age. It will be the loving relationship that keeps you all together in the end. You must have gotten married really young to have three kids at 18!
2007-01-12 08:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by angie20k 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 18 and you have 3 children?
2007-01-12 08:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age is not always in indication of maturity, but if he is an honest, loving man, of course, all of you will be better off. Since most women mature emotionally sooner than men, 10 years is about right I'd say.
2007-01-12 08:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter how old someone is, it is their preference on their lifestyle. If he can hold a steady job and support the family (especially one that isn't his!) then he must be a good guy!
Is that why you got married; for someone to take care of you?
2007-01-12 08:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maturity and stability usually sets in when males pass the age of 25. What's not to like?
2007-01-12 09:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe. ur the one who knows him, not us. personally, i think it's weird for a 28-yr-old to want to marry someone so much younger. by the way, try some freakin birth control.
2007-01-12 08:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gummybear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, they will 10 years isn't that much older and he probably settled down and can earn a better living. Now the sex , OH YEAH!!!
2007-01-12 08:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do u care? U already married to the man n ur kids ding him. Forget it n go be happy ma..
2007-01-12 08:46:34 · answer #11 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋