2007-01-12 08:29:47 · 12 answers · asked by cassiehartman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG, run from your fiance'!! Nothing good comes out of a marriage with a mama's boy. Mama's boys will always take her side, even if she is in the wrong and you will NEVER get the respect a wife should if you marry a mama's boy.
2007-01-12 08:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they never grow up and it can cause problems in a marriage. I have always been told and believe that a girl shouldn't marry a guy if he isn't good to his mother. It is shameful to see guys that disrespect their mom because they will treat their wife the same way. I like to see a man respect his mother but not be a baby. From my experience when your married live in a near town not right down the road from mom. This is the best advice you can ever receive. I have been there in my marriage and know that is the only way to get along with mother-in-law and have a healthy marriage. It makes the guy grow up and stand on his own. Good Luck
2007-01-12 08:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, he's your fiance, not fiancee (that is what YOU are to him).
How old is he? If you two are old enough to be engaged, then he is old enough to make decisions on his own and listening to his mother is a BAD SIGN. If he is a mama's boy, that is most likely not going to change and you will never become the main woman in his life, even when you get married.
Have you talked to him about it? I would recommend that and telling him that this is YOUR life with him, not his mom's and see what his response is. If he's not willing to be mature and live his own life w/o mommy's input (especially if he knows it bothers you), then I would be very concerned about moving forward with him.
Good luck!
2007-01-12 08:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marrying him is not going to change anything it will get worse. You need to think it over about tying the knot. Good luck. Put it this way can you see yourself going through this married and for the rest of your life, seriously. Peace.
2007-01-12 08:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices
Let him be with the only women he will ever truly love
-OR-
move far, far away from momma.
2007-01-12 08:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him the freedom to marry his momma.
2007-01-12 08:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a very long engagement and see if he'll grow up. If not, your problems have just started dearie.
2007-01-12 08:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the nuts! He sounds too deserving.
2007-01-12 08:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to spend the rest of his life with his mom, and not you.
2007-01-12 08:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kick his a-s-s to the curve cuz a guy who dont listen to you aint never going to and never will
2007-01-12 08:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋