2007-01-12 08:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by Lemme_Know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is he mature enough to have those type of feelings? I didn't say old enough- MATURITY is something that age has nothing to do with- I am 34 and I know grown men who act like 12 year olds. Legally, he can. Mentally he can feel that way, but is he really emotionally mature enuf to call it LOVE?
Not that it doesn't happen- Could it be the fact that he isn't scared of the commitment, as she is already married???
Most guys that age are too scared of the committment- not the feelings
Ya always want most what you can't have.
2007-01-12 08:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is young and stupid. Why would a married woman involve a kid in her marriage, she sounds like a great prize next she will try to figure out which one fathered her child. If you know the kid try to knock some sense in him and be sure to tell him when the husband finds out he will be the first to die.
2007-01-12 08:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by puzzled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much so it could be infatuation. It is pretty natural for fellas this age to be attracted to a woman a decade older than him and look at her as very sexy and unattainable. Much like when we are in school and have a good looking teacher we fantasize about her/him.
2007-01-12 08:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason attractive older women are what young guys like. Been there, done that!
Their maturity (attitude, personality, etc.) just makes them seem far superior to those petty attitudes those of your own age seem unnecessary.
2007-01-12 08:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there myself, many times. Oedipal notions aside, older women just didn't complain as much as my younger girlfriends did. They were usually as sexual and a lot less demanding. Older women really know how to make a guy feel good when they want him too, and they know how not to challenge his manhood. I'm quite sure I was being used, but they didn't monopolize my time, and I really appreciated that.
2007-01-12 08:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure.... lots of guys fall for older women.... may be infatuation and may be love! Ever see the old film, "Summer of '42'"? You should!
2007-01-12 08:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by waynebudd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he loves her. The married woman should however make it clear she is married!
2007-01-12 08:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the 30 year old lady is good in bed.
2007-01-12 08:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by joseg13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it would probably not work out in the long term..
2007-01-12 08:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause the married woman is a trifling homewrecker who just wants the boy for sex. she will never leave her husband because that is her security.
2007-01-12 08:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋