i've met quite some guys that are only interested in you-know-what and so I wrote them off because I discovered that if they can't love a woman they can't even make a pleasing, dedicated lover and satisfy her emotionally, intellectually & above all...sensually.
ps) I've been hungry for love for a long time and at some point I was considering just "being with someone without any obligations"
but I learned men like that can't even make it last for a longer period of time, so that's why I say they don't make good lovers and ultimately can't make a woman happy.
2007-01-12 07:52:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm not talking about one sexual experience but the fact that with the men who doesn not care about you, it doesn't go forever, does it? sooner or later, it's all over
2007-01-12 07:59:29 · update #1
i completely agree; one intimate encounter can be very special and beautifully satisfying for a girl, but! if it really were that good and if the man was so hot in bed, he'd prove it by staying with you at least for a few months and not walk away. if it were really that good!
2007-01-12 08:19:23 · update #2
A man that loves you...always the best lover......and a man I truly love, gets all the goods, and then some!!!
Hooray for LOVE!
2007-01-12 07:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with that. Lots of men love and understand sex very well and if they are attracted to a woman they will do everything to her in the bed, even if they are not in love with her. There are some simple, selfish reasons for that, he will make you feel great and then you will make him feel great back. So, even only for a short time he can make a great lover.
I am not talking about one night stand when man usually do not even remember the woman he slept with and usually just using her to satisfy his needs.
And wise-verse, if you do not love the man but he loves you, still even if he is a great lover, he won't satisfy you emotionally, intellectually...only physically and only for a short period of time.
The best lover is the one you are in love with and who loves you.
2007-01-12 08:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree, they make a better lover because a man that loves a woman is more understanding. The love they give you is so wonderful, they care about your feeling ,. your emotions and just make a great lover. They are so tender, they want to please you sexually and always ask what and where your most pleasure place is when having sex. They do all the things in sex that makes you feel you can't take anymore because it reach a height that you are so high that you can't stand anymore it is so fantastic.
2007-01-12 08:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. There are men out who are great in bed and can make you feel wonderful, but it's not enough. It's hard to just be yourself around someone who you are only sleeping with. And it is very hard for women to differentiate sex from love, it seems like we eventually fall for the guy we are having sex with, only to get hurt later. When your guy loves you, for better and for worse, sex turns into intimacy, which is the best.
2007-01-12 08:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by redbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't agree.
The best sex I ever had was with a friend a FWB
But a loving relationship is more important and ultimately more satisfying even if the sex is not 100%
2007-01-12 07:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, I agree. I actual have had some one-evening stands, and regardless of the reality that they were relaxing, that replaced into about it. yet at the same time as i replaced into with one guy for 4 years, the affection-making replaced right into a lot extra ideal. once you recognize someone, you study what issues they prefer and what they don't like. adult adult males who recognize and love you recognize a thanks to push all the right buttons! lol
2016-11-23 14:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if the love is there, then so will his attentiveness to your needs. There is nothing better than looking into his eyes and knowing in your heart what you see in his eyes. Love magnifies the act of making love.
2007-01-12 08:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree. Some guys are just plain good, love or no love.
2007-01-12 08:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah men who love you make bette rlovers than those who r just there,thats why i love men who love me they r more fun and they deserve my attention and love.
2007-01-12 08:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by marsha w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree! that is why i am not with my husband and now dating reno. reno loves me. and he makes love to me. my husband was a marriage license with sex thrown in. nothing exciting.
2007-01-12 07:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋