he cums to qick during sex how can i stop that from happing ????
2007-01-12 07:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You want to keep him erect for a little while before actually having sex.... at least a good 10-15 minutes..... also try going slow... and taking breaks.... stop the sex and go back to foreplay.... also there are condoms made by Trojan that are called prolonging condoms... which actually work! they have a numbing cream which will help your partner last longer.... Or when guys drink a little bit they tend to last longer because alcohol is a depressant which numbs your nerve ending causes the same effect as the condoms!!! hope that helps!!! best of luck to you!!!!
2007-01-12 08:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few ways of stopping this from happening:
1. You can try having him ejaculate first through some means of stimulation (for example masturbation, oral sex or a hand job), then wait 15-30 minutes and then go at it again. After a man ejaculates, the second time around needs much more stimulation to reach orgasm.
2. There are products such as Emla cream or benzocaine cream, which are local anesthetics that numb the skin. He can put some on the head of the penis about 30 minutes before sex , cover it with an occlusive (such as tegaderm or a condom) then wipe it off and wash the penis with water. Now the penis will be partially numb and he will need more stimulation to orgasm. This is 1st line drug treatment for premature ejaculation
3. Another option is antidepressants such as Zoloft, Paxil and others in the class of drugs called SSRIs. These cause delayed ejaculation as a side effect and should help your partner orgasm much slower.
I hope that helps!
Snoopy, BSc. Pharmacy, PharmD
(Pharmacist)
2007-01-12 08:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best answer is for both of you to do some research on the subject of premature ejaculation. There are many possibilities so keep searching till you find the one that works for you. there are books and web sites that discuss the problem. One thing you may try is for you to get on top and let him relax.
2007-01-12 09:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-11 04:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he feels like he is about to ***, then he should pull out and maybe squeeze the tip of his penis. From my own personal experience also, guys can go longer when they are wearing a condom vs. if they don't wear one.
2007-01-12 10:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by cmb325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways but I don't think you should look for the answers on here..There are some sites on the web that can give you serious detailed answers.. One is askmen.com and another is ivillage.com
2007-01-12 07:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lavender 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are having intercourse with the wrong guy.15 to 20 minutes is the normal time for a guy in his thirties. i am a little older and can go for another 10 minutes
2007-01-12 09:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The FIRST step is for HIM to realize there's a problem ans seek professional help. There are many remedies but you'll never ever find them without his help.
[ Hint :: don't ask a priest! ]
2007-01-12 07:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him to go slower and stop in between...
TEASE U a little before you 2 start having sex
2007-01-12 07:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋