is talking to other women on my space and it not even his page its his brothers..He thought that he could be slick and i wouldnt find out but i got a hold of his brothers password and been looking at it and hes flirting and asking them out..how can i confront him? hes also acusing me of cheating but im not and im preg..what should i do?? Im also scard that he might beat me up and lose my baby if i tell him hes abusive..and hes threned me that if i leave him he will take our son thats 2 years and i will never see him again...I scard to tell my family..
2007-01-12 07:41:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im so sorry that you are in that kind of situation. I know you are preg and scared but You need to tell somebody and get away. That is no way to live. If you are afraid for your child or ones you are about to have...you have the right to make sure they are safe, Please tell someone in your family.
2007-01-12 07:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family. They need to know he is a cheat and that he's being sneaky. There is no way he will get custody of your two year old. Get away from him. What makes you think you have to confront him? You already busted him slinking around and you know you should leave him. Just leave - make it happen. Any guy that uses another persons name to whore around online is a punk.
Do not bring another child into that kind of relationship. He's not a man if he's playing games on MySpace, honey. That's not what real men do. Real men don't look for other women online while their girl is pregnant!
Get rid of him. You will find a man that loves and repects you. They DO exist.
2007-01-12 07:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and take your children with you, then get a restraining order on his a s s. lf he comes near you after that you can have him arrested. Go and stay with some friends or your family until you can figure something out. But do no wait and act now before it is too late. Why stay with such a loser?
Good luck to you and stay safe.
2007-01-12 07:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly i'm very sorry because of the fact it is amazingly confusing to ascertain that the single guy or woman which you like and which you're having a new child with is cheating on you, i think of it may well be for the final to truly verify out the region to hand and ponder whether you choose it to be like that once. See I surely have 2 young infants under 2 that are 11 months aside and that i found out 6 months alongside with our 2d that they are dad replaced into cheating on me in view that i replaced into pregnant with our first and likewise that he replaced into nonetheless along with her at that component, in actuality I kicked him out and he stored telling me he replaced into on the shield staying in actuality he replaced into along with her helping her and her son. So i advise do no longer permit it bypass that a approaches, you realize now and he probable won't exchange, I say on your well-being and the toddler do away with him its no longer properly well worth the discomfort and questioning the place or what he doing and with whom. you could enhance the toddler your self and your relatively are good sufficient and 9/10 your loved ones can assist you what ever you pick good success, and returned i'm deeply sorry for what you found out. Take care.
2016-10-07 01:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you having babies with a boyfriend???? How wonder he treats you like garbage. Call the cops if he hits you since you are pregnant they will def. get his azzz! also check out domestic violence too. You should have an abortion. Really. Having all these babies out of wedlock. What kind of parents do you have to allow this type of behavior? What a shame to the rest of the decent girls out here. Email me direct ! You need someone to advise you on how to conduct yourself as a lady.
2007-01-12 07:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you live with him then when he's out get the hell out! never put up with an abusive partner. you and your children deserve better. you can get an injuction against him to make him stay away from you i would advise doing it.
get out and seek help.
2007-01-12 07:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh, why would you have stayed with this guy and have another child with a man who has threatened you in the past, and if you are afraid of him then you need to leave.
2007-01-12 07:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely need to tell your family, especially your parents and his parents need to be told as well. i would just stay away from him. you can do much better and now you have two babies that need you... most abusers not only abuse their spouse but also their children.
2007-01-12 07:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by ana g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the police and get a restraining order against him and take him to court for custady for your two yr.
2007-01-12 07:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you seem too young and not smart enough to be reproducing, i would consider adoption, who cares about myspace, grow up.
2007-01-12 07:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋