OK, my wife & I have been apart since July 2006 neither has filed for a divorce due to the cost. We have 1 child together, she is a wonderful person and a damn good Mom, what is so confusing is this... I have ask her for counsling or if she might wanna work things out and she says no, but she still visits my website every single day during her lunch. I do not put anything about her on the website run her down or anything, but she visits each day. Does this mean she still cares, loves me thinking of getting back im very lost & I hope this rambling of mine has made some sense....LOL.... HELP!!!
2007-01-12 07:17:55 · 15 answers · asked by fingerusa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
id say she thinks she knows what she wants, but she has to mak sure... and maybe she might thnk if she goes to your page shell find something like you being bad for her to justify her wanting a divorce... good luck with that one.
2007-01-12 07:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she may still be interested in ways, which is why you are not divorced yet. Divorce does not cost that much, so I do not think that is a valid reason. She might also be checking your website to make sure you haven't put anything bad up, I look at some of my ex's stuff like that, just to make sure. I will say this, do not hold your breath, since she refuses cousling, either she thinks you were the problem, or she is no longer willing to try.
2007-01-12 15:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women will always be curious...that is why she is checking out your website daily. She may even be looking for you to say something good or bad. She is just curious. Does she give you a reason she will not go to counseling with you? If you want to make it work, and she does not, then you must get on with your life...legal divorce or not. Ask her again if she wants to try. If not, I'm so sorry, but it sounds like you're a really nice guy. You'll be able to make it work with someone else one day.
2007-01-12 15:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by heatherb9 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Part of her still loves you and may always, but that does not mean that she wants to get back together. She may just be keeping an eye on you, seeing what you are up to. Give her time and space, don't pressure her, if she wants to work it out let her come to you.
2007-01-12 15:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch what you put on the web site , she could use it in the divorce. If you are going to get a divorce go for it stop hanging out and making everyone unhappy.
2007-01-12 16:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she still cares. You should ask her what she is feeling and tell her she is confusing you. Ask her why she visits your website everyday- Let her know how you really feel.
2007-01-12 15:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by NLH823 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is thinking of you, but not in a good way. If she will not go to counseling, then she has no intention of getting back with you. Looking at your wesite is her way of spying on you to make herself feel better, I would let go if this one and move on. It's not going to be easy, but I think you will be happier in the long run if you just "rip the bandaid off!"
2007-01-12 15:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
frist off is how do you feel about her.... if you don't want to let go, try romancing her a bit.... send her flowers as a secret admirer or something that she would like.... sometimes relationships just need a break/breather, now that you both have had one give it a try but do it cautiously and romantically
2007-01-12 15:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she did marry you. So she does care about you. Her going to you website just proves that she thinks about you everyday. That's a good sign.
2007-01-12 15:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol she is making sure ur not talking to some1else..she check ur website to see who u'v been adding maybe. but u know sometime when u think u dont want to be with ur mate anymore then u miss him untill u see him or her again and there u go u feel this same feeling that u dont want to be with her or him ...i dont know why
2007-01-12 15:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by carmel d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋