my [[kinda]] friend is telling people that i am gay.im a girl so that doesnt make sence anyways.but it really affended me.because i am not gay.not that i have a problem with gay people.how do i make the people that she told, not think i am gay.and how do i get her to stop telling people that i am gay?please help me! by the way...im in middle school...im a girl...and im 12.
2007-01-12 07:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by puffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its not going to go away in a few days or weeks,because one of my GOOD friends asked me if i was gay about a month ago,and i told her no.and then today one of my GOOD friends friends asked me if i was gay...so it has been about a month at least!
2007-01-12 07:52:01 · update #1
i am gay and i respect u cuz u don't have nothin' with gay people.... try talking with her cuz what's she is nasty... if she doesn't get it... f**k her... if u know u are not gay that counts..make a bf.... act normal like nothing happened... be yourself... smile...chin up.... and why did she said that u are gay?? maybe she is gay...and maybe she wants to see how do people react at this.....
u have to talk to her !!!! immediately....
2007-01-12 07:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore I assume you all ready publicly denied it the so the more you denie the more incriminating it looks the other kids are teasing you because they are bored and stupid you could throw it back in her face and say why do you talk about gay girls so much are you like a dyke or something it doent make sense why you telling everyone im gay when im not are you trying to hide that your a carpet muncher or you could talk to her about it ask her why she is doing this and ask her to clear things up though it prolly wont work my best advise is to just let it roll off your back in 2 weeks no one will remember any ways if any one ask you about it just say oh that was some kind of joke she was telling about me i dont know why maybe she mad i wouldnt make out with or something just kidding learn to laugh at your self a little and to throw the **** back at them and stand up for self
2007-01-12 15:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing - she is an evil vindictive witch. Your true friends will know the trust - gossip is gossip and tomorrow it will be someone Else's turn.
If it is really bothering you - talk to your mom or family member or a teacher.
Bullies are usually the one with the problem - she clearly feels inferior to you and she is more than likely to be jealous of you.
Last option - Get her alone and tell her she needs to grow up and stop her childish behavior or there will be consequences... Be firm.
Good Luck....
Rx
2007-01-12 15:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop gossipping shrews...you can choose how you react. keep your head up, and don't give them the power over you by allowing them to see that they are hurting you.
However, what they are doing is considered harrassment, and is against the law. Go see your principal, and tell him about the lawbreakers...
2007-01-12 15:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm and things will be ok
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2007-01-12 15:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋