I had a miscarriage about a week ago. The doctor said I will be able to try again this month. My miscarriage came a couple days after my missed period which was on jan 7. When would be the best time to have sex to try to convice a baby?
2007-01-12 06:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by Just hanging around 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
first off i am very sorry for your loss!
second i wanted to tell you my experience, i had a miscarriage, January 30 2005 i bled for like a week and a half and was told not to even try again for at least six months to give my body time to heal after a trama like that. i was going to, but we were stupid and i concieved again Feb. 11th 2005 even though i had pre-labor problems and had my son at 30 weeks, it had nothing to do with having a miscarriage before. it is risky because your body needs time to heal, but you do what you think is best, i just wanted to give you hope that is does happen and can happen. good luck to you and i hope sometime soon you have a healthy baby boy or girl of your own. i'll pray for you! :)
2007-01-12 07:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by puppy love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when u are ok emotionally and physically able. Only u will know when the time is right to try again. Because u had a very early miscarriage the baby was probably only a blastocyst..Which is just the sperm cells meeting with the egg etc. It is still a sad thing but if u are ok then go ahead and try again. I had a miscarriage a couple years ago at 12 weeks. it was twin pregnany and 1 died at 7 weeks and 1 at 8 weeks...The miscarriage was complete and I was very sad at the loss but i just knew not to live on crying and being depressed but to get the baby I wanted so badly. My doc said it was ok for me to try again and I got pregnant only a month after. It really depends on how u feel but im sure your next pregnancy will be just fine. Good Luck.
2007-01-12 06:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarraige at 3 1/2 months on my first pregnancy. I was told that there is no real increased risk if you get pregnant again right away although they do recommend waiting at least one cycle. I have heard that you are very firtile right after a miscarraige or birth of a child so I say go for it. I personally did not stop trying to get pregnant at all. I did not get pregnant again right away but I now have two healthy children and another one on the way. I know how difficult this is for you . I still get sad when I think about the baby I lost 13 years ago. I hope you get pregnant again very soon and have a beautiful healthy baby!!!! Good luck!
2007-01-12 07:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by gavinemma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am sorry for your loss. I understand you, as I also just lost our baby. I was 11 weeks preg and the baby died at 8 weeks pregnancy. At first, I was under shock and i didn't want another baby, but now, i really want another baby badly, although I'm very afraid that it ends like the other pregnancy !!! My ob/gyn told me to first wait for the period and then I must wait 3 periods to ttc again. After 6 weeks that you miscarry, you can have sex though.
good luck dear !!!
2007-01-13 00:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually. my aunt just miscarried about 2 weeks ago.
she went to her doctor to have a procedure done. they took her blood and all that after and said it was just a freak thing and she can try again in 2 months. He said that if she gets pregnant before the 2 months she is 90% likley to have another miscarriage. maybe you should wait a little bit. dont strain your body! it will happen all in good time
good luck!!!!
2007-01-12 06:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by AC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Amber It happened to me at 11 weeks and my doc told me to wait 2 months so my body cold recover
2007-01-12 06:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait at least 3 periods. Give your body time to heal. If you rush into it too quickly, you can miscarry again.
2007-01-12 07:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss. 14 days from the first day of your last cycle will give you the best chance of conceiving. good luck!!
2007-01-12 06:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋